The Fourth of Six Chapters of The ManBible MBC4V0S0L0

Chapter IV

The Pursuit of Women

    Brave fools with dreams of special times, never should they let these dreams fade.  Instead they must learn from every experience, the methods and tools of the trade.  In the pursuit of booty, these men realize, take most what is needed and leave the rest for compromise.  Always hoping to like whom they score, these fools break for love and the women they adore.

                                                                   The ManBible Sacred Illuminated Text IV

MBC4V0S0

Verse I - The Wisdom of the Sages

Section I - The Pursuit of Booty

Section II - The Game of Love

Section III - The Call to Bang

Section IV – The Rules of Attraction

Section V - Acting on Instinct

Section VI - Talk Less, Sex More

Section VII - To Say or Not to Say

Verse II - Secrets of Success

Section I - Success and Women

Section II - The Ratio of Success

Section III - The Great Mistakes                                            Section IV - Mr. Nice Guy

Section V - Follow the Booty

Section VI - Winning the Girl

Section VII - The Gentlemen's Prerogative

Section VIII - The Modern Theory

Verse III - The Fields of Booty

Section I - Playing the Field

          Section II – How to Find Booty

Section III - Cultivating the Booty

Section IV - Lying to Women

Section V – Nutrient-Rich Environments

Section VI - The Man in the Middle

Section VII – The Model Fantasy

Section VIII - The Cock Block

Verse IV - The Moment of Contact

Section I - Critical Booty Mass

Section II - Time, Place and Manner

        Section III - The Signs of Life

Section IV - Flash of Beauty

Section V – Initial Sex Decision

Section VI - First Kiss

Verse V – The Process of Approach

Section I - Playing the Situation

Section II - The Attitude

Section III – Making a Move

Section IV - Variation of Method

Section V – Come-On Devices

Section VI - Keeping Your Cards Close

Verse VI – Tools of the Trade

Section I - The Basic Tools

Section II - The Art of Kissing

Section III - The Fondle

Section IV - Positioning

Section V - Flirtative Skill

Section VI - Smooth Talker

Verse VII - The Dream of Love

          Section I - Must Be Magic

Section II - Real Love

Section III- The Power of Love

Section IV - Love At First Site

Section V - Searching for Love

MB Disclaimer: The ManBible values and requires respect for women in all regards. Nothing contained within The ManBible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Verse I

The Wisdom of the Sages

          "A man learns about booty by both doing it and by knowing what to do with it when he gets it.  The art of the pursuit of women is an exciting but sorted affair filled with challenges and difficulties, adventure and hardship, elation and despair."

                                                                -MBC4V2S1

          MBC4V1S0

Section I - The Pursuit of Booty

Section II - The Game of Love

Section III - The Call to Bang

Section IV – The Rules of Attraction

Section V - Acting on Instinct

Section VI - Playing the Field

Section VII - Talk Less, Sex More

Section X - To Say and Say Not

Sacred Illuminated Text: As a universal affair among men, the art of courting is a sacred mission.  Admiration and honor are bestowed on all who unlock the pleasures of women they desire. 

        Section I - The Pursuit of Booty

        MBC4V1S1

        The rewards of booty are priceless.  Especially when compared to other worthy endeavors, pursuing women offers the best physical pleasures and visual delights.  Beyond the prize of sexual relations and eventual sex, the pursuit also enhances life in many other ways.  These include relief from boredom, enhanced self-awareness, self-improvement, cooked food, cleaner and better living, MBetc.  A man in pursuit is a man at his best.  As a challenge to the mind and body, the modern courting ritual compels a man grow stronger and smarter by necessity.  The ManBible recognizes the Pursuit of Booty (POB) as the smart move for better living.  The POB is an inspired endeavor fostering creative energy and excitement.  Booty is a good choice of subject matter upon which to contemplate the big picture of the universe.  Effort and actions made for women of interest afford a man broad perspective as well.  There are very few experiences that can substitute for the hunt.

For most men, the search never ends.  The extreme interest and attention to detail concerning women is a common affair.  Women are constantly in the mind's camera view of life for most men.  When a man is free, he will pursue the booty.

The pursuit of women is an art form.   An exciting but sorted affair, filled with challenges and difficulties, adventure and hardship, elation and despair. Finding the right attitude and form requires attention to detail with a nuance approach.  Careful consideration of cause and effect, common female traits and seeing doors of opportunity are necessary to make the right move to success with women.  The way to master the pursuit is to practice the craft and listen to those who know better. 

Bang, Date or Marry (BDM) - The general intent of men is gaining sexual relations and eventual sex.  Most men possess three specific levels of intent when courting a woman of interest are i) general intent only to bang, ii) intent to date and possible relationship, or iii) intent to marry.  The ManBible recommends banging or dating before considering marriage.

1) Bang à Only sexual relations and eventual sex

2) Date à Relationship and sexual relations and eventual sex

3) Marry à Marriage and eventual diminished sexual relations

MBNote: Every moment with a woman of interest is an opportunity to move closer to success.  By the time the decision to dive is made, a man should already be well on his way to gaining favor.  The rewards of booty substantially outweigh any difficulties along the way.

        Section II - The Game of Love

        MBC4V1S2

The pursuit of women is a game.  The game between men and women is a game played for sexual relations and sex.  There are rules, moves, and successful outcomes.  Through communication, physical action, planning, manipulation and scheming, a man's goal is to create an atmosphere conducive to SRS.  Good will, sexual tension, comfort and mystery all convince women of interest to engage in intimate relations.  Most often, the best players win the game.  The ManBible recognizes the Game of Love (GOL) as the process of courting women for the ultimate goal of sexual relations and eventual sex.  The GOL is also known as the booty hunt, the chase, trolling, MBetc.  In order to play the game, there are nine basic rules that guide most players. 

Rules of the Game of Love

GOL Rule 1) Minimum Two-Day Rule

GOL Rule 2) The One-Half Plus Seven Rule

GOL Rule 3) Interest Dictates Attention  

GOL Rule 4) Always Compliment

GOL Rule 5) Single Women are Always Fair Game

GOL Rule 6) Sloppy Seconds are Discouraged

GOL Rule 7) The Switch 

GOL Rule 8) Eye Contact Invites

GOL Rule 9) Respect for Rejection

1) Minimum Two Days before Return Call Rule (GOL Rule 1) - A man must wait at least two days before first calling a woman of interest after first contact if she agreed for him to contact again.  This usually occurs with the exchange of a means of contact.

2) The One-Half Plus Seven Rule (GOL Rule 2) - A man's age determines the reasonable target minimum age of a women he can make a move on that is considered socially acceptable.  Calculated by half the man's age plus seven.  MBWarning: State law determines the legal minimum age for contact for all ages of men.  Know the law.

3) Interest Dictates Attention (GOL Rule 3) - A man may continue to give attention to a woman of interest only by approval of the woman of interest.  These signs of life will be found, and include repeat eye contact, hair play, and engagement in communication.  When a woman is not interested, less or no attention is required.  The smart move is to avoid being the dick in a jar.

4) Always Compliment (GOL Rule 4) - A man should always compliment a women in the regular course of courting, dating, marriage and beyond.  One per day or week is usually sufficient.  Compliments are easy to make and offer tangible rewards for consistent follow-through, especially with the goal of keeping them happy.

5) Single Women are Always Fair Game (GOL Rule 5) - All women who are currently single are eligible for a man's attention and possible courting.  Until a woman is spoken for among friends or dating among strangers, the fair approach is that every man has a shot at the golden apple of booty pleasures.

6) Sloppy Seconds are Discouraged (GOL Rule 6) - Men should avoid courting a woman of interest who previously held relations with a man's close friend or relative.  Even sufficient years rarely create an exemption for this rule.

7) The Switch (GOL Rule 7) - The switch is when a man is dating or seeing a woman and wants to go out with her friend or roommate.  The switch cannot be done.

8) Eye Contact Invites (GOL Rule 8) - When a woman of interest engages in a friendly eye contact for an amount of time that a reasonable man under similar circumstances would believe an acknowledgement of the eye contact has occurred and the women is inviting the possibility that a move may offer interest.

9) Respect for Rejection (GOL Rule 9) - A man who is rejected by a woman of interest should gracefully exit stage left.  Defeat is momentary when the amount of booty in the world is endless.  Persistence is only allowed by permission.

 

Courting a woman of interest usually requires

convincing, coaxing and subtle manipulation of the truth.

Single is more fun period.  The freedom to choose new adventures at any time in any place provides energy and hope for future tomorrows.  Men are at their best when chasing booty, and the game of love should only be cast aside after serious contemplation.  The GOL is known to make life better: the morning is met with optimism and the night extended to make it last.  The ManBible recognizes Future Sex Possibility (FSP) as the realistic ability to make a move on new women for sexual relations and sex.  FSP is a good reason to forge ahead with maximum effort yet stop at the water's edge of exclusive relationships.  Once a man is out, significant changes occur to attitude and thought.  These can include general diminished sexual interest and decreased social interactions with new women of interest.  Observation of hot females are slightly tainted, and conversations with unknown women less exciting. 

The Game Of Love à Courting Ritual à Girlfriend or Wife

à End of Game of Love à ?

MBNote: Winning the game of love means engaging in sexual relations and sex.  Real love is not necessarily absent but also is not required to play.  The ManBible teaches a man how to play and win the game of love with principles, rules and methods.  Part preparation and part performance, knowing how to play is good before one enters the field. 

MBNote: The game of love ends and another begins when a man commits to a monogamous relationship with a woman of interest.  Other situations, such as real love or a serious dating relationship, begin to take shape.  If you are not in the game, then you’re either in a relationship, married or lost.  All are essentially the same.

A Player - i) A man who exerts great effort and skill to gain favor with women, ii) a man who is successful in playing the game of love, iii) a man who is substantially involved in any situation.  All players attempt to play the game of love well.

Future Sex Possibility (FSP) - The chance a man will have sexual relations and eventual sex with a woman of interest.  Men who are dating exclusively have low FSP with most women, and essentially have none.

Diminished Sexual Interest (DSI) - The decrease in a man's interest and energy concerning sexual relations and sex over time and age.  The DSI is a frequent issue of concern.

No Effort Gig - When a woman engages in sexual relations and sex without the need for a regular courting effort.

Section III - The Call to Bang

        MBC4V1S3

Men think about sex often.  Generally, a man will think about sexual relations and sex every minute of every day.  This is commonly known as Sex On the Brain (SOB), and reflects the normal state of brain use.   As the days progress, these reflections create a buildup of sexual tension and interest.  Responding to this build-up, a man searches for booty to satisfy and relieve the horny condition.   As the foundation of passion, lust and zest for living, The ManBible recognizes all men experience this Call to Bang (CTB). The CTB creates the motivation to seek out women of interest and make a move.  Most cannot help but heed to the call.     

60 Minutes x 18 Hours x 365 Days = 394,200 Reflections on

Women and Sex per Year

Section IV – The Rules of Attraction

          MBC4V1S4

Men want to be liked by woman.  Reciprocated attraction is a highly rewarding experience, and its frequent achievement a reflection of a strong booty potential.  A woman's interest is the catalyst for a man to dream of booty pleasures.  As attraction between men and women is determined on a case-by-case basis, where actions and words are as important as the quality of a man, knowing what works matters.  Beyond first impressions, acting on instinct and disclosing feelings are common mistakes when attempting to gain favor with a new woman of interest.  The good moves are known in the collective wisdom of men.  The ManBible recognizes Rules of Attraction (ROA) as commonly known issues in the courting ritual.  Although some men will take contrary positions, the ROAs are known true through man booty experiences.  Rules of attraction are not made to be broken, but followed and built upon.  Those who trust false guidance or wishful thinking to cushion the blow of reality waste valuable time in the search for booty.

Female attraction can be arbitrary, capricious and random.

 

 

The Rules of Attraction

1) Never Show Interest First (ROA1)

        Deep affection is not a good first move.  Women find the easy catch less attractive than the one who can get away.  A man who shows too much interest at first diminishes his standing and potential to gain favor.  There are several reasons for this reaction, one being women want the courting process to be a chase ending in an affirmation of their beauty.  The qualities most women seek are proven in action and word, not lust or horney interests.  They know every man has those interests.  The ManBible recommends never show too much interest at the beginning of the courting ritual.  Romantic notions begin with sexual tension, uncertainty and challenge.  Part of this notion includes the bargain for sexual relations and eventual sex Avoiding the display of interest maintains a position to which to bargain from.  Women enjoy being favored by men not easily swayed, as those who drool are too easy to lay.

2) Like Attracts Like More Than Opposites (ROA2)

          Opposites generally do not attract.  From a modern perspective, differences can enhance sexual tension and increase the level of sexual relations and eventual sex.  The opportunities of booty are greatly expanded by purity of intent and recognition of a woman's universal appeal.  Personal perspectives, such as political views, lifestyles, and religion can prohibit or diminish a comfortable foundation upon which a man uses to build intimacy.  Like generally attracts like more than unlike.  However, many women of interest are found in uncommon quarters.  Just as a preppie man always has a shot with the punk girl, the cool has a chance with the geek. The ManBible recommends conforming perspectives with a WOI to form commonality and buffer differences.  Shared character traits and interests afford familiar endeavors of mutually recognized lasting value. 

3) The Inside is also Important (ROA3)

Looks are not everything, usually.  A common mistake of men is the belief that a woman's looks are everything.  Although this may seem true in abstract horniness, rarely does it hold true in practice.  Many times, personality enhances the attractive nature of a woman of interest.  A better-looking woman is sometimes less attractive than a less attractive woman who is really cool.  The ManBible recognizes the inside traits of a WOI enhance the booty experience and pleasure.  Further, most women believe the inside is very important.  Women will overlook much of what is on the outside when the inside makes up the difference, which should advantage men who choice to improve their booty potential.  The smart move is always to display interest for the inside even if the outside is good enough to bang anyway. 

4) Beautiful Women Date Good-Looking Men (ROA4)

         Pretty girls date the pretty boys.  Supported by substantial evidence, men and women tend to date and mate with similar levels of attractiveness.  In this regard, fantasy worship is unproductive, but improvement of a man's Booty Potential is the way to better and better booty.  Only through hard work and effort may a man rise to the world of pretty women, except with inherent good looks to succeed.  The pop-culture reverse fantasy where the nice guy finishes first is a myth based on men who refuse to challenge themselves to increase their BP.  There are no shortcuts to banging the pretty ones.

5) Women Display Signs of Affection (ROA5)

        Women want sexual relations, too.  When a woman finds a man attractive, she will express her feelings on the matter in some way.  These signals can be as small as a brief gesture or as large as a clinging close and then coming back for more.  Women are usually cautious to make a first move but always ready to give a man the chance or avenue for success.  A man must always watch for these signs of life.  (See SOL MBC1V1S1L1).  However, when the signs are absent, it's usually time to move on.   

Drooling – When a man shows obvious signs of affection and interest in a woman.  This behavior is easily observed and rarely found effective to gain favor.

Pop Culture Reverse Effect (PCRA) – When participation in a cultural event reverses the normal lack of attraction between opposite types of men and women.

The Hit - When a man makes a successful courting move on a woman to gain favor.

MBNote: Presence is something but not everything.  The first move for most men in the modern courting ritual is presence.  This is commonly known as giving off the vibe.  The ManBible recognizes that some posturing is necessary, but only as a first step into a larger universe.  Posturing allows women to view men in a favorable light and to determine initial attraction levels based on look and style.  Keeping a solid and tested posture is very important in this respect.  Women of interest many times view a man first when initially assessing, and therefore that is the first opportunity to make a good impression.

Section V - Acting On Instinct

MBC4V1S5

        By nature men are dumb.  As a man's normal instinct is to bang as many women as possible—even the ugly ones—instinct disadvantages a tailored approach to success.   Many times, instinct clouds better judgment.  To let go and act on instinct is usually not a smart move for a man.  Instinct rarely flies straight.  The ManBible recommends men not act solely on instinct, as many natural instincts with women tend to be wrong for the situation.  Instead, a man should learn the skills and methods necessary for effective action and response.  Instinct is important, but can simplify an issue best left to higher and more refined thought processes. 

Common Instincts of Men

1) To bang a woman as soon as possible

2) To talk about themselves and not listen

3) To focus on one feature of beauty at the expense of others

4) To dismiss once-in-a-lifetime opportunities

5) Too timid in the face or fear of rejection

        6) Lack of self-confidence to make a move

        7) Talking before thinking

        8) Premature breast touching

        9) To prematurely disclose feelings of affection or real love

        10) Promises of an exclusive relationship early

The Opposite - When a man does the opposite of his normal reaction to events.   The opposite acknowledges the problematic concern with the instinctual behavior of men. 

Section VI - Talk Less, Sex More

        MBC4V1S6

          Never talk more than needed.  Generally, the more a man talks during the courting ritual, the less success in gaining favor with women of interest.  Even when entertaining and interesting, excessive talking leads to increased disclosure of information, saying more than needs to be said and increasing the risk of saying something stupid.  Some even believe they can talk their way into sexual relations and eventual sex, but talk is cheap.  The tendency of men is to talk more than necessary to gain SRES, and the men who talk less receive more booty pleasures and delights.  The ManBible recognizes Talk Less Sex More (TLSM) as the positive correlation between a reduction in talking to the amount of sex afforded.  Although there are good reasons to entertain and fill the awkward gaps in conversation, saying less is the better move.  Critical to this endeavor of self restraint is to avoid subjects with no useful purpose that chill a woman's interest and darken her mood.

Men seem smarter when they talk less.  As a woman will make the decision to bang fairly quickly, the smart move is to say less—not more.  When a man relies equally on presence as much as conversation, he displays the qualities of intelligence and refined behavior.  The ManBible recognizes a man must talk less to optimize the chances for more sex.  Essential to all courting is the Blank Relationship Slate (BRS) where the past histories of other women of interest become moot.  The BRS is a chance to begin again in a golden land of opportunity and adventure.  Past mistakes, grievances and mishaps can rest in the past alone, unable to negatively affect the present situation.  They still may inform, especially when mistakes are not repeated, but they are no threat to success.  Mystery feeds the BRS effect, as the less a man discloses the more interesting and mysterious he seems.  When enough of a woman's hope for the right man is fed, nothing more needs to be said.

Blank Relationship Slate (BRS) - During the courting ritual or a new found relationship, all past mistakes, actions, failures and love lost have only an educating affect.

Section VII - To Say or Not to Say

        MBC4V1S7

        Men are stupid in many ways.  One way is the choice of subject matter to engage with a woman of interest.  There are many topics that should be generally avoided in conversation.  The ManBible recognizes men must avoid issues counterproductive to success.  Even when the topic reflects well, there is always time latter.

Topics to Avoid with Women of Interest

1) Hate or dislike of ex-girlfriends

2) Love or like of ex-girlfriends

3) Dislike of children

4) Politics

5) Fetishes

6) Cheating or fraud

7) Negative topics

8) Science and its fiction

9) War and related military

10) Hazing ritual

Words matter.  There are many words used to describe women that should not be spoken.  Although This is especially true when among female company.  A man caught disrespecting the opposite sex with vulgar descriptions results in diminished opportunities for sexual relations and eventual sex.  The ManBible recommends avoiding the use of Offensive to Women Words (OWW) to maximize success with women and maintain common decency as a person. The five most offensive OWWs are slut, bitch, hole, whore, and cunt.  These words generally offend most women.   A respectful tongue keeps a man out of trouble, and all booty possibilities on the table.

The Well of Booty (WOB) - i) The women connected to a man's immediate social circle and subsequent connections to other women in social circles with common members. ii) The recognition of the vast reserve of bangable women around the world.

MB Disclaimer: The ManBible values and requires respect for women in all regards. Nothing contained within The ManBible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Verse II

The Secrets of Success

        "As long as a man is getting booty on a regular basis, the ratio of success is less importance than the facts on the ground."

                                                                        - MBC4V2S2

MBC4V2S0

Section I - Success and Women

Section II - The Ratio of Success

Section III - The Ratio of Return

Section IV - The Great Mistakes                                            Section V - Mr. Nice Guy

Section VI - Follow the Booty

Section VII - Winning the Girl

Section VIII - The Gentlemen's Prerogative

Section IX - The Modern Theory

Sacred Illuminated Thought: Success is always an important goal when courting women of interest.  Learning the methods that work is the smart move, and rejecting those that don’t is even better.

          Section I - Success and Women

          MBC4V2S1

Success and women is generally elusive.  Every situation calls for a unique approach, as every woman of interest is unique in her own way outside common beliefs, actions and reactions of women.  Figuring out the right moves to create a path to sexual relations and eventual sex is always a challenging affair.  Most women require a blend of many moves and methods, including love, affection, attention, snuggling, money, travel, decent sex, partying, romance, MBetc.  Knowing what to blend is key to unlocking the pleasures and delight of booty.  The ManBible recommends a flexible approach that combines as many methods as necessary for gaining favor and success.  Not every woman likes to be romanced nor needs to see gold.  However, most need respect and attention to their soul.

Success is not always possible.  Although a man can improve and develop his booty potential, the ultimate fate after making a move is determined by affection created.  Even when the odds look good, many times overtures are quickly rejected.   However, this is not really an issue when the primary goal is sexual relations and eventual sex.  The Manbible recommends the ultimate achievement of SRES as a means to many ends, including real love and true affection.  The love of women should always be stronger than the love of one particular woman to keep a sharp eye on the prize.  This is especially true if a man wants that particular woman.  Men who continually seek the pleasures of booty fair better than those who long for love unreciprocated. 

Basics for Success with Women

1) Know how to bang

2) Listen more than talk

3) Keep a job

4) Agree most of the time

5) Keep clean

6) Be positive

7) Lie when necessary

8) Pretend to care when necessary

9) Good first date event

10) Show the gold if you got it

11) Recognizing the goal of gaining favor with a woman of interest is more important than the opinion of other or lesser men.

12) Being able to speak fairly well and to refrain from talking beyond one’s knowledge, even if limited, is a good approach to avoid looking stupid.

13) Knowing one or two subjects well enough to appear authoritative on the matter is a good place to start the courting ritual. 

14) Quality and quantity; both will work. 

15) Knowledge is only useful to enhance the courting ritual.  The brag of intelligence rarely helps and usually hurts the cause for booty. 

MB Warning: In order to gain favor with women of interest, men must generally be proactive and bold as love.  Sitting on the sidelines is not acceptable.

Section II- The Ratio of Success

MBC4V2S2

There are levels of success.  Although there is no penalty for failure in the courting process, each man has strengths and weaknesses in the game of love.  Sometimes a man who is good banging bridesmaids strikes out time after time at the late-night club.  The ManBible recognizes gaining favor with a woman of interest is a story of success and failure.  Making a move is the first step, and a step that should be taken often.  The Ratio of Success (ROS) is the amount of success as a percent of booty attempts.  This is also commonly known as a man's Batting Average (BA).  The ROS/BA is partially dependent on circumstance, much of which is outside the control of man.  For everything else, it does reflect the wisdom of choices, including where to live, what style to dress and where to socialize.

       

Rejection ß Making a Move à Success

         

MBex: Ratio of 1/4 at weddings

Wedding 1 - No Booty or prospect

Wedding 2 - Many flirtations, last minute pullout, rejection

Wedding 3 - Ex-girlfriend flirt, not booty

Wedding 4 – Bride’s cousin 2-hour talk, bang at the end of the night booty

Sometimes it's not meant to be.  Not every attraction results in sexual relations and eventual sex.  Even after a date or two, sometimes the timing is not synced with the sentiment or current availability.  A woman of interest with a current boyfriend is usually hard to court successfully.  Determining whether or not a WOI is in Dating Mode (DM) is difficult, and can only be done by assessing all available facts and then making a guess.

Section III - The Ratio of Return

        MBC4V2S3

        Keep coming back for more.  The wise goal of initial sexual relations with a woman of interest is to perform well enough to entice her with more sexual relations and eventual sex.  Performance is essential when it comes to gaining continual booty.  Women generally lie when telling men performance is not important.  The ManBible recognizes several factors that determine a man's Ration of Return (ROR).  The main factors are i) performance in bed, ii) available pool of men, and iii) money and status.  The better the bang, the more continued relations are offered.    

Ratio of Return

        4/1            2/1                                         1/2

ß----------------------------------------------------------------à

      Problem      Respectable  All come back      Brings a friend

1/1

Section IV - The Great Mistakes

          MBC4V2S4

Some are fated to repeat the mistakes of others.  When a man attempts to gain favor with a woman of interest, there is always the possibility of failure.  Rejection is a part of the game of love, and the opportunity of new booty.  Failure caused by natural events, such as non-attraction or mismatched personalities, should never be allowed to reduce booty potential.  However, failure from the lack of knowledge of the basics of the courting ritual is just plain stupid.  The great mistakes are those repeated over and over again by men who avoid the wisdom passed down from men before them.  A man should never repeat the mistakes of the past or settle for less.  

The Great Mistakes

of the Modern Courting Ritual

1) Too much disclosure of information (See MBC3V4S0)

2) Too much interest initially displayed (See MBC4V1S3)

3) Confusing lesbians with bisexual women (See MBC6V9S1)

4) Disfavored subject matter (See MBC6V1S7)

5) Treating women less than they deserve

6) Crude language and caveman nonsense

7) Too Cheap on a Date (TCD)

8) Weird vibes do not work unless they are cool

9) Dirty hands will not get to touch pretty boobs

10) Copping looks at other women while on a date

Section V - Mr. Nice Guy

        MBC4V2S5

        Nice guys finish last.  Being nice is generally attractive.  However, being too nice is generally less attractive.  The problem is nice can temper and inhibit excitement and dare.  Being a good person is important.  But in the courting process, nice usually cannot get it done alone.  A man must tap other resources of imagination, energy and cool to make progress with a woman of interest.  The ManBible recognizes The Nice Guy Method (NGM) as the reliance on being a nice guy for success.  The theory of NGM is women generally like nice guys, so if a man acts nice, he will gain enough favor for sexual relations and eventual sex.  The NGM is routinely overused and misused.  Being polite and decent should not mask other strengths, including self-assertion, edge and vigor.  Balancing attractive qualities is essential to maintain hand and control of a situation.  Nice guys sometimes finish last.

MB Warning: In the end, "the better man" does not always get the girl.  In the modern courting ritual, men achieve success by optimizing their ability to communicate, sway and manipulate.  Even if a man is a "better man" when compared to another, he still must compete in the open field with the merits of all others. 

MBNote: Women who are good friends will know much about each other, and their shared words are listened to with authority.  The old technique of befriending the friend of a WOI is not completely without merit.  A vote of confidence by girlfriends is a great seal of approval to, at the very least, be given a chance.  The ManBible recognizes that a chance given is a chance received. 

Good Guy Syndrome (GGS) - A woman of interest can sometimes make a man believe he needs to change his ways toward goodness to maintain favor and possibilities of sexual relations and eventual sex.  The GGS occurs when a man changes his behavior and even his thought processes to cater to social expectations.  Unless through marriage or other important circumstances, most men who achieve GGS eventual revert back to the men they were before. 

Section VI - Follow the Booty

MBC4V2S6

Give them what they want and you will receive.  The decision to afford a man a chance at success is based on many factors, including attraction, peer pressure, social expectations, lust, type of man, money, a specific skill set, height, lifestyle, MBetc.  The more a man understands the motivations of a particular woman of interest, the better position to satisfy those needs.  Generally, a man must give a woman what she wants, expects and desires in order to gain sexual relations and eventual sex.  As men will do almost anything for sex, this is a logical step to gain sexual favor.  With the best guess of motivations and inner workings in hand, a man can use this knowledge to steer himself in the right direction for success. 

Section VII - Winning the Girl

        MBC4V2S7

             

          Let the game begin.  Sometimes a few good men will seek the favor of one woman of mutual interest.  This can be a problematic situation when the men are close friends, and the ManBible recommends walking away from the booty.  For all other situations, a single woman not in a relationship is generally fair game.  The goal is wooing the woman of interest in a more effective fashion than the other man or men.  The ManBible recognizes in the modern world, Winning the Girl (WTG) is based on individual achievement, not confrontation or conflict.  When the WTG is achieved, the other men must bow to the decision and move on.  The unique challenge of gaining favor with a woman of interest includes the respect and decency to other men to concede defeat when the game is lost. 

A man can only do as much as he can do to gain favor,

and no more.

Section VIII - The Gentlemen's Prerogative

          MBC4V2S8

          Most women enjoy the company of a gentleman.  A gentleman possesses the character and qualities most revered in the modern world: appropriateness, curiousness and respect for women.  The ManBible recognizes and recommends following The Third Rule of Men: Always be a gentleman.  (See The ManBible Rules of Men (MB3R) MBC3V3S3).  Although not required, a man will certainly increase his Booty Potential with Gentlemen Graces and Gestures (GGGs).  Most women appreciate the GGG.  A gentleman exudes confidence and calmness when dealing with issues of women and courting, and always makes the safe moves to impress the ladies.  Never caught in distasteful or disgusting habits or acts, a gentleman keeps his condition and slate clean of turnoffs and embarrassments.   

Common Sense Chivary (CSC) - Things every man can do to come across as more attractive and increase success rates with women of interest.

Specific Gentlemen Graces

(Five things a gentleman does in the presence of a lady)

        1) Ladies first

        2) Keeping private matters private

          3) Patience with women and their different approach to life

        4) Listening to women and treating every thought with respect

        5) Getting them home on time

        6) Never pushing for sex too soon in a relationship

        7) Never having sex on the first night

        8) Maturity of character when toyed by a woman

        9) Always willing to walk away without a fuss

        10) Attention to a woman's comfort

MBWarning: A man should never go overboard. Repeating several gentlemen-like behaviors in one sitting is a dangerous gamble.  The ManBible recommends restraint. There is a general exception if the man holds a Bad Boy Status (BBS); he should refrain from gentlemen gestures unless the refrain will cause the woman substantial pain or embarrassment. Most men can act as gentlemen and reap the rewards.  

MB Disclaimer: The ManBible values and requires respect for women in all regards, and nothing contained within The ManBible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Section IX - The Modern Theory

MBC4V2S9

Women, sex and life are important in the modern world. Although some of the advantages of the old courting ritual are gone, the amount and choice of booty has generally expanded to make up the difference.  As traditional social barriers have been removed, the modern world brings men and women together like never before.  These traditions included arranged marriages, family influence, group retention and social taboos.  Unlike the old way of doing things, the modern courting ritual requires impressing, wooing and convincing women to engage in sexual relations and eventual sex.  The ManBible recognizes modern men must rise to the challenge of a new social dynamic requiring more individual skill and achievement.  The better a man's character, style and achieved positions in life, the more women he will gain favor with on any given night.  Every woman in the world is potential future booty, which makes the pool of women of interest almost unlimited in scope.

MBNote: The equalization of men and women in the modern world enhances the quality and quantity of a man's future booty.  Although it makes the courting ritual more difficult and challenging, it also increases the opportunities for more frequent and greater pleasures.

The Modern Pursuit of Women

(Key Changes for days of past)

1) Women stand more equal with men

2) Diminished effect of family influence

3) Intense displays of independence

4) Diminished toleration for infidelity

5) Increased sexual expectations

6) The mass increase of professional women

7) The vast amount of comparison-shopping

8) Female power and bisexual dreams

9) Sexy clothes and female underwear

10) Complexity of female thought

MB Note: This potential ability to succeed in the modern courting ritual is reflected in a man's Booty Potential.  The higher a man's BP, the greater success he will have with women of interest.  (See The Booty Potential (BP) MBC1V2C1).  In the modern world, success is less about where one comes from, and more about the cut of the man.

MB Disclaimer: The ManBible values and requires respect for women in all regards. Nothing contained within The ManBible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Verse III

The Fields of Booty

          "When a man dates a woman, he is committed only to find an answer to the question of whether or not he should date seriously and give up the single life.  A man is single, even when dating."

                                                                        -MBC4V3S1L10

          MBC4V3S0

          Section I - Playing the Field

          Section II – How to Find Booty

Section III - Cultivating the Booty

Section IV - Lying to Women

Section V – Nutrient-Rich Environments

Section VI - The Man in the Middle

Section VII – The Model Fantasy

Section VIII - The Cock Block

Sacred Illuminated Thought:  Time gaining favor is well spent when steady progress is made through each encounter.  Only when the progress ends does a man begin to waste time. Time wasted is a waste of material.

Section I - Playing the Field

        MBC4V3S1

        There are many women of interest.  Although most women seem to be complete in form, substance and satisfaction, only through sufficient comparison can the pleasures of booty be reasonably gauged.  Generally, experience with five to twelve women is sufficient for accurate future assessments.  To fully appreciate the scope of beauty a particular woman of interest presents, many WOI must be examined.  The ManBible recognizes Playing The Field (PTF) as the continual search for sexual relations with new WOIs even when currently dating anther WOI.  PTF is the decision that new booty trumps long-term relationship building.  Men should remember that when a man dates a woman, he is committed only to find an answer to the question of whether or not he should date seriously and give up the single life.  A man is single, even when dating.  A good amount of PTF also affords the knowledge and experience necessary to both improve a man's game as well as survive the company of a long-term girlfriend, partner or wife.  Without experience, a man is left alone to wonder about the quality of booty received, and the moves he should make to their gain favor.

The One-Half Plus Seven Rule

(OHMSR)

Age of Man + 7 = Minimum Age of Woman

                         2

Age difference between men above 30 and women.

So many women, so little time.  Traversing through a social scene or group generally affords many opportunities of booty.  This is especially true in vibrant scenes of booty where finding woman of interest is fairly easy.  Common vibrant scenes include nightclubs, parks, beaches, coffee houses, college, hospitals, MBetc.  Although most men secure booty through heart felt relationships or confessions of love, Playing the Field is the more enlightened option.  The ManBible recognizes exclusive dating; also known as monogamous relationships, for long periods of time increase the risk of wasted time.  Furthermore, spending too much time with one woman tends to create booty sadness and longing for other women.  PLF is usually the right thing to do, at least from time to time, as it gives a man the opportunity to grow, expand horizons and see more naked women.

MBNote: The ManBible recognizes men are disposed to new women of interest: It's not boobs, ass or face which makes a man adore a woman above all others; it's new boobs, ass or face.  A fresh start will always have a greater impact than yesterday’s dreams fulfilled. 

Viberant Scenes of Booty (VSB) - A social scene with enough connection opportunities to other women and social scenes to afford a man further opportunities of booty.  VSBs are not to be discarded lightly. 

Booty Sadness - When a man is committed to one woman but feels a unique sadness of the inability to make a move on other women.

Door of Escape (DOE) - A circumstance either presented by luck or created by premeditated action that affords a man the opportunity to dump a woman without directly expressing the intent to breakup.

Wasted Time - The time where a man could be searching for and receiving quality booty and new sexual relations but do not.

          Section II – How to find Booty

          MBC4V3S2

        Women are everywhere.  Although women are generally everywhere, finding a woman of interest in order to gain sexual relations and eventual sex is not as directly obtainable.  Less a place and more a openness to experience, finding booty is connected in part to a man’s state of mind.  When a man understands the booty he seeks, it will reveal itself time and time again.  A bold and adventurous approach to life leads to more booty.  Just as one can stand in a room full of women already pursued, a man can find the one single woman to make a move.  The ManBible recognizes the availability of women is limited only by a man’s ability to find the opportunities of booty.  This is commonly known as The Booty Radar (TBR).  The Br offers a broad definition of attraction and adventure, and consistent use insures all avenues are explored and all possibilities considered.  Booty is everywhere to a man who can see a little further. 

Booty – A term of art meaning i) women and the sexual experience their bodies are capable of bringing forth to men (booty), ii) descriptive part of the Booty Potential, or iii) the rear, ass or behind of a woman.

Women are the connection to other women.  Knowing how to follow the booty trail of a social scene is an essential skill in the modern world.  The ManBible recognizes there are Common Booty Sources (CBS).  A man can meet many women of various connections to a social situation, including Friends of Friends (FOF), Cousin's Friends (CFs), Girlfriend Girls (GGs), random meets and even the highest attainment, the "One-Hit Wonder" (OHW).  When a man has a high Booty Potential, he can handle any girl meet that comes his way. 

Common Booty Sources

1) Random New Girl (RNG)

2) Friends of Friends (FOF)

3) Girlfriend Girls (GGs)

4) One-Hit Wonder (OHW)

5) Cousin's Friends (CFs)

6) Girlfriend Redux (GFR)

7) Parents’ Friend's Daughter (PFD)

8) Girl Next Door (GND)

9) Arcade Girl (AGs)

10) Strippers (Strippers)

11) Travel Companion (TCs)

12) New Hire (NHs)

13) Friend's Ex-Girlfriend (FXG)

14) Girl at the Party (GAP)

15) Ex-Girlfriend of Old Friend (XGOF)

16) Friend's Girlfriend (FGF)

17) Ex-Girlfriend of Ex-GirlFriend (XGFXGF)

18) Girlfriend of Ex-Friend (GXF)

Random New Girl (RNG) - When a man meets a new woman with no social connection to the man.

Friend of Friends (FOF) - When a man meets a new woman who is the friend of either a current male or female friend.

Girlfriend Girls (GGs) - When a man meets a new woman who is the girlfriend of his girlfriend.

One-Hit Wonder (OHW) - When a man meets a new woman and concludes the encounter with sexual relations.

Cousin's Friends (CFs) - When a man meets a new woman who is the cousin of a current male or female friend.

Girlfriend Redux (GFR) - When a man meets up with a former girlfriend and continues sexual relations, even for just a night.

Parents’ Friend's Daughter (PFD) - When a man meets up with a daughter of his parents’ friends. 

Next Door Neighbor (NDN) - When a man meets up with the daughter of the next store neighbor’s parents.

Arcade Girl (AGs) - When a man meets up with a woman at an arcade, amusement park or other youthful hangout.

Strippers (Strippers) - When a man meets up with a stripper after frequenting the establishment she works.

Travel Companion (TCs) – When a man meets up with a woman when traveling

New Hire (NHs) - When a man meets a woman who has just been hired to the organization or company he works.

Friend's Ex-Girlfriend (FEG) - When a man meets up with a friend's ex-girlfriend and an insufficient time has elapsed to a make a move with respect.

Girl at the Party (GAP) - When a man meets a woman at a party or other social event.

Ex-Girlfriend of Old Friend (EGOF) - When a man meets up with a friend's ex-girlfriend and a sufficient time has elapsed to a make a move without disrespect.

Friend's Girlfriend (FGF) - When a man meets up with a friend's current girlfriend and makes a move on her, totally disrespecting friendship and honor.  (See The First Rule of Men MBC3V5S1).

Girlfriend of Ex-Girlfriend (GFXGF) - When a man meets up with an ex-girlfriend's friend.  This meet is perfect for revenge bangs and realizing past interest deferred. 

Ex-Girlfriend of Ex-Girlfriend (XGFXGF) - When a man meets up with an ex-girlfriend of an ex-girlfriend.  This meet is perfect for revenge bangs and realizing past interest deferred.   

MB Warning:  Not every girl meet should automatically be followed by an attempt at success.  Sometimes an issue arises with the connection of the new woman to previous friends and girlfriends.  The ManBible recommends only when a man is dealing with a current or past friend's ex-girlfriend (EGOF, FEG, FGF) should a man take absolute care in the matter.  Respect for other men is an important trait. There are always more fish in the water, and greener pastures always lie ahead.  (See Green Pastures Theory (GPT) MBC7V1S4).

MB Disclaimer: The Man Bible values and requires respect for women in all regards, and nothing contained within the Man Bible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Section III - Lying to Woman

        MBC4V3S3

It's not a lie if you believe it.  Throughout history men have misrepresented the truth for the opportunity of sexual relations and sex.  Even if a man wants to remain truthful, the reality of women and dating lends to a more nuance approach.  Not everything needs to be said, and more important, some things cannot be said.  The ManBible recognizes The Lying Method (TLM) as a common approach to avoid issues that jeopardize better relations.  In most situations, reliance on the truth is fairly problematic and usually leads to a reduction in SRES.  Under TLM, issues of body perception, parent relationships, sexual performance, and cheating should not be discussed and lied about if necessary.  Many women of interest will deny access to their bodies until an expression of true affection and emotion.  Therefore, the choice to lie under TLM affords greater quantities of SRES.   The downside of TLM is the perceived increase in the non-physical bond a WOI believes she maintains with a man, which leads to additional relationship problems.

Common Lies of Men

1) Confession of love

2) Will call again

3) Mo Money

4) Most beautiful ever

5) Best BJ ever

6) Travel experience

7) Not dating anyone else

8) Love of camping

9) Side female projects

10) Cheating

        Section VI - Cultivating the Booty

        MBC4V3S4

        Not every relation begins with a bang.  Women vary in degree of work and effort necessary to gain sexual relations and eventual sex.  Some women are fairly easy while most other women demand a real commitment before handing over the keys to paradise.  The amount of effort necessary to gain favor with a woman of interest should be enough without wasting time in life.  Ultimately, the amount necessary for success varies with the situation: level of attraction, discretionary time to work the booty, a man’s Booty Potential, lust for living, MBetc.  The ManBible recognizes a man sometimes must Cultivate the Booty (COB) before actualization of SRES.  Small moves without immediate follow-up can improve chances for success in the future.  COB is a common form of working a situation.  By laying the foundation of intrigue, mystery, anticipation, sexual tension and interest, a building to Critical Booty Mass can be achieved. 

        Word gets around.  Women are very perceptive and generally smarter than men.  When they pick up information of interest about a man, many times through contact or hearsay from girlfriends, they tend to disseminate the IOI.  Sometimes the IOI is positive, such as respectful tones, maturity and displays of sweetness, or negative, such as drunken public escapades, rude talk or hygiene issues.  The ManBible recognizes Dividends Down the Road (DDR) as a man's actions in the present to positively influence future booty opportunities.  A good move today might come back for later success tomorrow.  DDR is especially important within a circle of friends and close other circles of friends.  In situations where a man is attempting to either gain favor or evaluate a dream, most opportunities are small but still worth the effort for DDR.  Whether making a good move, setting up a future contact, or just saying hello, the dreams of future tomorrows come sometimes very slow.

        MBex: A man is at a party and meets a woman of interest.  After a brief MB probe method conversion, he charms her enough to get her email address, and then he leaves her for the rest of the night and goes out on the town.  The next day, he writes her in an email to feel out the situation.  Two days later, a long phone call and a first date.  This is a relatively short cultivation of booty.

          Section V - Nutrient Rich-Environments

          MBC4V3S5

          Finding the booty is the primary .  Beside the common and direct avenues to meet new women of interest, such as a friend reference or work relationship, there are places where the booty resides.  Certain places and times attract women for their excitement, interest, fun and chance to court, and it's here where men want to be.  Girls just want to have fun.  Women tend to congregate together when the cultural forces bring them together in harmony.  These are the places where opportunities for men increase for sexual relations and eventual sex with women of interest.  The ManBible recognizes there will be places in time where sexual tensions between men and women intensify exponentially.  These are known as Nutrient-Rich Environments (NRE).  Common places include nightclubs, weddings and house parties.  In social situations with an atmosphere of fun, new people and excitement, women are generally more receptive to the advances of men.  When there is a NRE, the game of love has a larger field of play.  The ManBible recommends a man always take these opportunities seriously, as they come only so often in life.  With the subject of sexual relations intensified in the minds of men and women in a situation, a man may gain more success in life in this air than at any other time or place.  A man should take the easy path when availed to him, as most times it will only be the hard path he must follow.

With some qualities of the courting ritual, a man will know it when he feels it. 

Nutrient-Rich Environments

        1) Dances in Nightclubs

        2) Weddings

        3) House Parties

        4) Wine on the Beach

        5) Group Getaways

        6) Coffee Houses

          Section VI - The Man in the Middle

MBC4V3S6

Two girls are better than one.  In the saga of one man and two women, the man always wins.  When two women compete, the man has sufficient hand to avoid the burdens and yet obtain the greater fruits.  In the end, he is the desired party—the man of interest—and the women seeking his attention and affection will be ripe for the picking when the moment is right.  This principle extends when there are more than two women as well.  The ManBible recognizes The Man in the Middle (MIM) situation when interest from multiple women of interest.  Although a man should not be personally upset with the MIM, one or more of the women surely will be.  Strange behavior, initiating the first move, excessive laughing and post-choice fighting are all possible outcomes. 

The interplay between two or more women with a man of interest is a fascinating place to view the inner workings of the world of women.  Competition for men is usually a more aggressive affair, with subtle jabs masking more serious efforts and feelings.  A woman who finds competition after she designates the goal of gaining the attention and affection of a man of interest will resort to many actions: aid of friends, back-stabbing, manipulation, Mbetc.

Common Man in the Middle Situations

(Most common situations with multiple women)

1) She likes the friend of her friend even though she likes the guy, too.

2) Two girls at the bar, one guy.

3) Two women in rival social circles, with one of woman challenging the other's hopes of happiness.

4) Ex-girlfriend redux and potential new girlfriend.

5) Bringing one girl to a party and leaving with another.

MB Definitions:

Third Wheel Effect (TWE) - When a man is attempting to court a woman and a third person, either male or female, interrupts the courting ritual.

Third Wheel Breakdown (TWB) - When a third wheel ruins a courting opportunity.

Train Wreck (TW) - when two women of interest you want and possibly could have are in the same place at the same time.  The easiest solution to this is to get out of the way of the train.  Going back and forth is really not an option.

The Great Train Robbery (GTR) - Where a train wreck turns into nothing either by confusion, jealousy or plain rejection.

Fucksters  - Men who like to fuck.

Section VII – The Model Fantasy

        MBC4V3S7

Men who seek women can only get women they can seek.  As success with women is measured by sexual relations and eventual sex, this outcome matters a great deal.  Who a man may seek for this success depends in large measure the size and sufficiency of his booty potential.  Women of high esteem for their beauty almost always require high BPs.  The ManBible recognizes men who wait for the booty dream above their BP level as perpetrating The Model Fantasy (TMF).  Many men are swayed by the images they see of attractive models in magazines and movies.  Failing to combine all aspects of women for interest, they commit to only these women in a foolish attempt to demand the stars. 

BP to Attraction Scale

(with example)

There are more than just good looks.  Men should avoid the common mistake of believing high esteemed women for their beauty are the only women that matter.  Setting the bar at a hot model level when a man's BP is not sufficient to make this a reality is bad form and a waste of time.  The ManBible recognizes the high bangability of most women.  Most women are beautiful and worthy of the chase, and most men will not be afforded the opportunity to date a model.  Get over it, and enjoy the booty afforded and received.

Section VII - The Cock Block

MBC4V3S7

        Cock blocking is wrong.  One sad affair is the interference of a man's courting attempt by another man.  In the realm of men, men who prevent other men from the booty they have made a move on are disfavored.  The ManBible recognizes this interference as a Cock Block (CB).  As an act generally frowned upon as well as highly discouraged, cock blockers are rarely taken into the confidences of social circles.  Complications arrive in a situation where two or more men meet and favor the same woman in a close period of time. The ManBible recommended time range is somewhere between five and fifteen minutes, depending on the room, the levels of alcohol, type of party, or other first encounter events.  Common courtesy demands that no one man shall block another man in his pursuit of a woman.  Men must have some rules, or chaos will result.

The Four Known Blocks and Wacks

Cock Wack --> A guy stops a girl from scoring.

Pussy Block -> A girl stops another girl from scoring.

Cock Block --> A guy stops another guy from scoring.

Pussy Wack --> A girl stops a guy from scoring.

MB Disclaimer: The ManBible values and requires respect for women in all regards. Nothing contained within The ManBible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Verse IV

The Moment of Contact

"Every moment of opportunity with a woman of interest is an opportunity to move closer to success.  By the time the decision to dive is made, a man should already be on his way to gaining favor."   

                                                                            

-MBC5V2S1L50

                   MBC4V4S0

Section I - Critical Booty Mass

Section II - Time, Place and Manner

                Section III - The Signs of Life

Section IV - Flash of Beauty

Section V – Initial Sex Decision

                   Section VI - First Kiss

Sacred Illuminated Text - Better to attempt to gain favor with women of interest than the man who only dreams of success.  Listen to the wisdom of the sages, practice, and never repeat bad moves of old.

Section I - Critical Booty Mass

        MBC4V4S1

When the moment is right, the booty will flow like wine. A man and woman who share affection can share a mutual harmony.  However, and before this occurs, something must build inside them insure a motivation for substantial emotion and/or physical contact.  After a man first encounters a woman and designates her as a woman of interest, there are two important and indistinct missions he needs to accomplish: to continue to evaluate the dream while beginning the process of gaining favor.  Every evaluation should lay a foundation for future success by making the right moves while assessing a woman of interest.  The right question can illuminate the booty.  Even opening of a door for a lady can make the instant gentlemen at least worthy of interest.  The ManBible recommends questions that disclose positive information concerning the woman, respectful flirtations, compliments, questions on life and common cultural issues.  The dual nature of meeting a woman means the fun has really begun.   

Every moment with a woman of interest is an opportunity to move closer to success.  By the time a decision to dive is made, the work to gain favor should already have begun.  Enthusiasm, sexual tension and excitement build the foundation for further interest. This proactive approach insures forward progress if a man decides to court a woman of interest.  This pre-courting work to gain favor increases Booty Mass (BM), which is a reflection of the accumulated courting effect on a WOI.  In order to grow the BM, good moves should be carried out methodically.  These good moves include developing a sense of interest and trust, creating mystery and excitement, filling voids and solving problems, refraining from disclosure of information, MBetc.  The ManBible recognizes Critical Booty Mass (CBM) as the point when enough Booty Mass is created to afford sexual relations and eventual sex.  When the BM increases to the level where the woman would be willing to get busy, CBM is achieved.  This is the moment where a man "gets the girl," even if he has not exercised the right yet.  CBM is a moment to celebrate and cherish, especially when the feeling is right. 

MBNote: The ManBible recognizes a woman can increase the Booty Mass of a situation as well.  Many times, this is when a woman falls for a man seals the deal.  

MBNote: When a man formulates a question for a woman of interest, he should be answering many unspoken questions as well.  This part of the pre-courting process is the most challenging, as a man must both acquire information about the woman, and interact with the woman in a way she will respond favorably.  If a man goes too far in requesting information, or gets too shallow in describing things that matter, his evaluation of a dream might even end up a detriment to his plan.  

Booty Mass (BM) - The level of positive effect on a woman by a man after the first encounter.

Critical Booty Mass (CBM) - Achievement of a social interaction that creates the conditions necessary for a commitment by a woman to proceed to the initial makeout session (IMS)

Section II - Time, Place and Manner

MBC4V4S2

Buenos dios, and Buenos noches.  Regardless of Booty Potential, nothing can really change the lack of attraction.  Sometimes, there is no chance for success, even when a man is rich, as sometimes the booty is not for sale.  The pairing of couple into relations, in a certain place, and at a certain time, in a certain manner, in a certain frame of mind, is always fairly uncertain.  A woman who would fall in love with you during a summer at the beach might not during the last days of college. Finding Critical Booty Mass, and therefore the commitment of a woman to proceed to the initial make out session, is not an exact science.  Time, place and manner are random elements in the game of love.

MBWarning: When a man is rejected, the process of self-defeat and humiliation has the potential to settle in and create unnecessary misery. 

Section III - The Signs of Life     

        MBC4V4S3

Watch for the signs.  As the eyes are windows to the soul, body movement, verbal expressions, and other actions can be indictors of affection.  Women are aware of the power of their female beauty and allure, and when interested in continuing the courting process, they afford openings and give approval to further entice.  Either through direct means or subtle hints and indirect gestures, the point will be made if a woman wants to make it.  The ManBible recognizes these as The Signs of Life (SOL), which must be looked for closely.  SOLs are sometimes elusive.  Most women hold their cards tightly and only disclose their favor after a man professes some interest.  Therefore, the SOLs are usually of a small nature, but with big consequences.  Their reservations are also premised on unknown motivations in the world of women.  These probably include fear of rejection, social customs, taboos and peer pressures.  Many times, a woman who can no longer hide her affections to a man's appeal will reveal these feelings reflectively, with inadvertent stares and signs of sex appeal.  A classic example is playing with hair.  Even though a woman may attempt to ignore feelings of affection, those feelings tend to spontaneously surface anyway. 

Pay attention when courting.  These coveted signals of affection come only through keen observation and attention to detail.  A man must look more than just around—from the tits to the face to the ground.  These signs are the cosmic signals of the courting ritual; the “stop” and “go” lights in the game of love.  Common signs include everything from twirling hair and swinging leg movement, to invites to hang and getting a man alone.  When a woman signals life, it is a sign of interest and acceptance for a man to engage in the first steps of the courting process or continue to the next base.  They are the signals all men wait for and cherish when found, as there is nothing better than positive and reciprocated attention from women of interest.

Know the Signs of Life.

The signs of life are revealed to men in many ways.  Women will show physical signs of life by body language and involuntary actions.  Common reflexive signs include hair-playing, leg bobbing, and facial giveaways.  As these movements are fairly spontaneous and uncontrolled, they are the most reliable signs of life.  A woman's calculated body movements, on the other hand, are explicit expressions of affection.   A woman will frequently position herself around a man for observation and interaction, giving her the opportunity to create a powerful allure with signs of beauty.  Women reveal inner signs of life by words of interest and opportunity.  Responses such as cryptic answers, talking about someone they like without naming names, and personal questions of interest can all fall under a display of inner signs of affection.  

Common Signs Of life

1) Playing with Hair (PWH) - A woman who plays with her hair during engagement with a man is usually in a state of some form of positive arousal or interest.  It can be a sign the women is interested, comfortable, captivated or a combination of these.  When a woman gazes off and twirls her hair, it is a good sign, unless she is thinking of another man.

 

        2) Eye Contact (EC) on a regular basis - A woman who will allow a man eye contact is a woman who is interested in a man some way.   Whether the game is afoot when a man attempts to court the woman is another question entirely.  Eye contact communicating the intent to bang is highly sought.

        3) Enthusiastic Talking (ET) about themselves or stuff they like to do - A woman who is comfortable and interested in a man will disclose her fundamental wishes and desires in the attempt to flush out a man's reaction.  It is always a good sign when a women personalizes the conversation.

        4) Foot and leg movement (FLM) - When a man excites a woman with the possibilities of courtship and beyond, they tend to have autonomic foot and leg responses, usually in the form of fidgeting, swaying and repositioning.  As this movement is seen many times without a man around, women obviously dream of men as well.

        5) The Giggles (TG) - When a woman laughs at a man's humor, especially in a consistent fashion, she is revealing amusement and interest in the man.  Although not enough to ensure success, it is a path to more serious opportunities.

          6) Acting differently in front of you - When a woman designates and claims a man of interest, noticeable changes in her normal routine around that man will usually be evident.  This does not apply to new meets.  (See Types of Meets MBC0V0S0).  As a decision is made with affection, she will find it difficult not to send a signal of this decision, a sign of life.

        7) Very Nice Smiles (VNS) - When women want to signal affection, most put on their very best smile.  A woman will not smile more than a friendly smile unless there is some possible interest.  Qualified by a certain glow and nature, the VNS should elicit a physical twinge in the man.

        8) Woman Initiated Contact (WIC) - A woman who initiates first contact with a man will usually laugh at his jokes, be interested in even stupid things he does, and generally, will be interested in continuing the interaction, usually through conversation and flirtation.  She will also make eye contact or will watch you when you are temporarily away from her. 

Section IV - No Return Signal

MBC4V4S4

 Sometimes there are no signs of life. When the signs are searched for but not found, there are two main possibilities: i) she hides her feelings and emotions well, or ii) she has rejected the man as a possible candidate for her booty.  Generally, the second answer prevails.  The ManBible recognize the signs of life are a required indicator of future success, and although the instinctual fantasy of love conquered and won, there is plenty of booty to justify leaving some things undone.  Without SOL, the risk is too high to waste time on uncertainty with just one woman. 

MBNote: If the decision is positive, then the game is afoot.  Furthermore, the strength of the signal of the SOL will determine not only the state of mind of a woman, but will be the beginning block of formulating a dating plan (DP). 

MBWarning: Some women project signs of negative affection and severe rejection. A man must remember the green pastures theory and generally walk away.  These women are usually more trouble than they are worth.

Section V - Flash of Beauty

        MBC4V4S5

The female body is a gift of everlasting enjoyment.  When the situation with women of interest is favorable, many WOIs will show signs of life.  One sign of importance is the momentary revealing of enticement through use of the female body.  By controlling the output of sexual appeal and the delightful displays of her beautiful nature, a WOI holds a powerful incentive for men who seek women.  The ManBible recognizes these Signs of Beauty (SOB) as a means to c entice and reveal the willingness to further engage in the courting ritual.  Beauty is revealed for those men who matter.  These SOBs are exciting because they and must be looked for carefully, as they sometimes reveal only briefly.  An example of a SOBs are eye, hair and body movement, which in combination, are designed to elicit a response from a man of interest.  Classic SOBs, such as an intentional boob or leg shot, the greatest boob show on earth, the bikini flaunt, and the two-girl dance, remind men there are many different signs of beauty.  When these signs are directed at an individual man with the intent to gain a favorable response of interest, these signs are truly signs of life.  When a man is successful in gaining favor, he should enjoy the beauty a woman has to offer.

                       

SOB = EY + HR + BODYM

                             BODYM = Body Movement

                             SOB à SOL à (HIT) or COD

Beauty is the dreams of future tomorrows.

Common Flashes of Beauty

1) Intended Body Shots - (Boob shots, leg shots, booty shots, MBetc.) - When a man is privileged and fortunate enough to catch a glance, stare, or long view of a feature of beauty intended for the man to view.  (See Features of Beauty (FOB) MBC2V1S5).

2) Fuck Me Eyes (FME) - When a woman looks into a man's eyes in a way that accomplishes the intended message of sexual interest.  Experience is required of a man to determine whether he is getting FME or something less.

3) Position of Beauty (POB) - When a woman positions herself in either a man's view or within the area of conversation and then makes her presence and body known to the man by a favorable display of her features of beauty. 

4) Almost Naked Opportunities (ANO) - When a woman is interested in a man and knows how to use her body, any time she can, she might just try. 

MBNote: The type of reaction women have to a man is proportional to his Booty Potential.  The amount of women and the variety of women are also proportional to a man's BP.  The more BP, the more women will be attracted to the man, desire to interact and show Signs of Beauty (SOB), and be disposed to The Hit and other common and sanctioned come-on devices.

Section VI - Initial Sex Decision

        MBC4V4S6

First impressions do matter.  The way a man walks, talks and acts makes a lasting impression not easily changed or diminished.  When a man first encounters a woman of interest, the first few moments are likely determinative of a future bang opportunity.  During this initial time, the man is quickly scanned and sized up for quality.  Comparisons are made and judgments rendered by a process not fully understood in the realm of men.  Just as most men scope out every woman for bangability, women do the same, only with more mature depth and unreason.  Only when a man meets qualifications specific to a WOI is there the possibility of sexual relations and eventual sex.  The ManBible recognizes the Initial Sex Decision (ISD) as the regular course by women to decide whether or not she would have sex with in the future, under favorable circumstances and conditions.  The ISD is a reflexive reaction usually completed in 10 seconds to three minutes.  Under the right circumstances and a high enough Booty Potential, a man will gain a favorable ISD decision, also known, as "I would sleep with him" response.  Of course, this does not mean sex is assured.  The ISD is not a blank guarantee of future booty, but a gate-keeping function all men must overcome. 

A man must know the long odds.  To avoid confusion and waste of booty-searching time, an attempt should be made to determine the Initial Sex Decision.  Distinctive and observable behavior concerning a positive or a negative ISD (ISD+ / ISD-) is detectable in most cases, although a few women reserve the decision.  One way a man can know the ISD is through the presence or absence of signs of life.  A positive ISD also includes signs of interest and happiness, looking directly into a man’s eyes, scooping for personal information, asking questions proactively, blushing and Non-Observation Observing (NOO).  When a great first impression is made, even an announcement of a positive ISD is possible.  A positive ISD increases Booty Mass and begins the work toward sexual relations and eventual sex. 

WOI à ISD+ à Future Sex

WOI à ISD - à No Future Sex à Move On

MBNote: Overcoming a negative Initial Sex Decision by a woman after this critical step is extremely difficult though not impossible.  The ManBible recommends a strategic retreat and regrouping.  When an opportunity to make a move arises again, a man may find a way to reverse what is normally irreversible. 

        Section VII - The First Move

          MBC4V4S6

        Making the first move is the right move.  Although the modern world offers progressive social and sexual relations, some aspects of the courting ritual remain the same. Both for practical as well as social expectations of a man to first reveal the intent to bang is well established.  Men want sex first so the burden falls on those with the greater demand.  Making the first move also protects a woman's reputation from allegations of sluttery or loose behavior.  Like most traditions that maintain importance, they are fairly good at keeping the peace.  Further, men should not fail to take up this first challenge, as it can bring out the best in a man.  The ManBible recognizes The First Move (TFM) as the action or words that express the intent for intimate relations beyond normal social interactions.  The TFM must be perceived, even at a subtle level.  TFM poses the question: Can we get together to provide an opportunity to convince you to engage in sexual relations and eventual sex?  This goal of SRES is mightier than most, and worth the shame and humiliation found along the way.  A man must pass over the fear and uncomfortably of rejection and keep his eye on the prize: SRES.  Breaking beyond this fear, TFM is always the right move, as time wasted in life is irretrievable. 

         

Common First Moves

1) Asking a woman out on a date

2) Walking over to a woman at a bar

3) A suggestion of coffee or a drink sometime

4) Attending a woman's performance or recital

5) Finding a boyfriend-girlfriend conversing style

6) Asking for a dance at a party or event

7) Conversing about a personal subject matter

8) Sending a love letter

9) Paying a woman's bill or expense

10) Talking about sex

Sometimes the woman goes first.  One valued reward of maximized Booty Potential is a man's ability to attract women.  In some instances, this affect is enough to compel a woman to make the first move.  The ManBible recognizes The Female Hit-On (FHO).  A common FHO is when a woman approaches an unknown man of interest at a social function to converse directly.  However, FHOs are generally uncommon, as few women will make the first move on a guy.  A man will know his Current Booty Potential is sufficient to induce women to make the first move when propositions, sexy poises, heavy flirtations and statements of affection are offered. 

Questions of Merit (QOM) - A question posed whose intent is to reveal the true nature of the person asked.

Questions of Fluff (QOF) - A question posed whose intent is to hold off asking any true nature of the person asked.

Questions of Sex (QOS) - A question posed whose intent is to bring the subject matter of sexual relations and eventual sex up for discussion and possible evaluation.

          Section VII - First Kiss

          MBC4V4S7 

          The first kiss counts.  Although many men find kissing the lesser part of booty pleasures, most women believe a kiss is a special moment—always cherished and greatly appreciated.  Kissing for women is enhanced by their nature and ability to intertwine emotion with physical acts.  For men, a kiss is usually just a kiss.  However, a woman will factor into her decision whether or not to afford sexual relations and eventual sex the quality of the first kiss received.  Women extrapolate from the first kiss the quality of a future relationship and relations in bed.    The ManBible recognizes The First Kiss (TFK) as the first kiss on the lips lasting more than two and one-half seconds.  A bad TFK bodes poorly for the man who makes it.  Men should focus effort on making TFK a special moment for future success.  A good kiss will always get a man far.

The first make-out session with a woman of interest

should be at least 20 minutes.

MB Disclaimer: The ManBible values and requires respect for women in all regards. Nothing contained within The ManBible is intended to objectify women in any malicious, unkind, or disrespectful way.  Love of women is key to The ManBible.

Verse V

The Process of Approach

"A man should act with purpose and composure.  The ManBible recognizes that to have the attitude, one must believe in his own bullshit."

                                                                        MBC4V5S1L40

          MBC4V5S0

          Section I - Playing the Situation

Section II - The Attitude

Section III – Making a Move

Section IV - Variation of Method

Section V – Come On Devices

Section VI - Keeping Your Cards Close

Sacred Illuminated Truth: Finding the right approach to a woman of interest is usually a challenging affair, but confidence and bold moves will fair better than timid responses.  A man must go for it more times often than not.

          Section I - Playing the Situation

          MBC4V5S1

First impressions matter.  The introduction of presence to a woman is a critical step in the courting process.  For those who lack the basic skills, the last step as well.  However, by acquiring the knowledge to avoid mistakes and make a good approach, a big step forward can be taken with confidence of future success.  There are many ways to approach a booty situation.  To find the sweet spot to attract a woman of interest, a man should modify his approach for each woman encountered.  Although standing firm with one style and refusing to change is admirable, it fails to improve the chance for success.  The ManBible recognizes Playing the Situation (PTS) as carefully tailoring the initial approach of a WOI to gain the most favor in a given situation.  It's usually better to be liked than not, even with women of less interest.  PTS is the most common manner to find the common ground for sexual relations and sex.  When dependent on what will be most effective—as opposed to honest feelings on the matter—attraction is a better result than boredom or disinterest.  When the approach is right, a man will be in a position to take advantage of booty opportunities.

All men should come to a woman of interest

on the mount of a horse.

Pairing the mood of a woman brings the things closer together.  When a man makes a move on a woman of interest, a quick gauge of her current state of affairs is essential.  Observing the face and body posture assists in this determination.  A relaxed sexual stance with a smile means something very different than the apathetic look at a bar.  Once a WOI's mood is determined, a man can approach from either the same or different vantage point for greatest effect.  Most women believe understanding feelings and giving attention and sympathy when needed is an admired and attractive quality. Sometimes a happy WOI needs fun and excitement, and sometimes a crazed WOI needs distraction, head clearing and hard bangs.  Two people going in two different directions rarely meet.

Men can be what women want them to be,

as far as women are concerned.

MBEx: A man goes to a party and finds an attractive female dancing.  Busting a move on the dance floor is sometimes the only way to stop watching and get into the action.

Section II - The Attitude

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Attitude is half the battle.  A positive approach wears like armor in the battle for booty.  The more confidence displayed when courting a woman of interest, the more opportunities for success.  Key is being free from the fear of rejection, and disavowing that one woman can foster self-doubt.  The ManBible recognizes The Attitude as the strong display of the belief of self worth and independence from the woman's view.  Staying cool no matter what happens only improves the prospects for booty pleasures.  This means whether she stays, walks, lays or chooses not to play, a man is still tapping his shoes in the end.  Common names for the attitude include: a smooth operator, groove shark, ladies’ man, The Man, MBetc.  The main purpose of making a move is sexual relations and sex.  Whether it's one WOI or another, men with the attitude find themselves with women more often.

Sexual confidence can be achieved by all men,

regardless of skill.

MBNote: If a man is caught in a breast stare, he should not immediately look away.  Within any situation, if there are any possibilities of interfacing with a women of interest, confidence of action will be responded to better than cowardly moves.  Take the extra second to look before turning away.  This is called a stare for an invitation.  If the WOI is interested, she might even be flattered that the man is looking.

Section III - Making a Move

        MBC4V5S3

        Hitting on a woman is sometimes the hardest thing to do.  Fear of rejection twists the mind of men and dashes hopes of booty pleasures and delights.  A world of negative thoughts, confusion and doubt are navigated with only a chance for success.  Black is sometimes white, up is sometimes down.  However, the approach of women of interest must be done often.  There will come moments when a man must get off the fence and get into the game.  Soon there after a WOI is found, a man must rise to the challenge of life and be brave under pressure.  The ManBible recognizes Making a Move (MOM) as the decision to proactively seek the affection of a WOI through action.  Attraction for a woman should generally be followed by a meaningful response. Without a commitment to continual MOM, a man risks diminished success and regret.  The smart move is to lean toward making a move, even in the face of difficult circumstances or great odds.  A man cannot say he did not try or it was inconvenient at the time—just make a move.

Better to make a move and take the risk

than go home empty-handed without even trying.

Fundamental Rules of Making a Move

        1) Never show too much enthusiasm.  When a man makes a move, he should always start with some disinterest to avoid nullifying the challenge and excitement of the courting ritual.  Women generally dislike over-attraction or drooling responses.  Be Cool Hand Luke and never let them see you sweat.  A man who holds back excitement at first gets the most booty in the end.  Being the eager boy generally gets a man nowhere.

        2) Grab full attention.  When a man makes a move, he should make sure to gain the full attention of a woman to avoid creating an opportunity for disengagement.  A man has to gain enough time to make a move, so a captive audience is essential for that purpose.   

        3) Know your audience.  When a man knows what a woman is about, he will know what she wants to see in the courting show.  A man must vary his approach to tailor to each unique woman.   If you are at a strip club, money talks first, but if you are at a wedding, long- term plan man works every time.  In order to fully realize a man's potential, he must know how to be more than himself. 

        4) Use all advantage.  When a man makes a move, he should always make the best move he can muster.  There is no reason not to put it all on the line, and anything helpful should be used.  Repeated use of good moves with former girlfriends is always warranted, as these experiences refine a man's approach with women.  Leaving advantages on the table for principle is an unproductive mind game of fools.

        5) Never fear rejection.  Rejection is part of the game.  DO NOT WORRY ABOUT REJECTION, EVER.  The ManBible guarantees there are no dire life consequences, no one cares, or is ever going to care about the rejection, especially when the next booty opportunity is only a move away.

Making a Move is one of the most difficult endeavors a man must experience in life.  Without making contact and conversation with a woman of interest, the fruits of sexual pleasures will never be found.  A man will make many moves in his lifetime, and it is better to try and fail only to succeed at last, than to not try often or at all.

A man must be as bold as love, as success does not come from sitting on the sidelines.

Don't think just do.  Fundamental to the grand scheme of courting is the truth of opportunity: woman of interest with the possibility of success are found once in awhile.  All men should make a move when the opportunity arises.  Men who take on the challenge to approach new WOIs do not regret opportunities tried and missed.  The ManBible recognizes The Three Outcomes (TTO) when a man makes a move.  TTO1 is the best outcome: reciprocation and approval.   Usually stated by a sign of life or other implied desire, the likelihood of this first outcome is improved through an increase in Booty Potential.  TTO2 is a general denial or rejection.  Far from bad, this second outcome is a necessary risk of courting, and is a useful learning experience.  Rejection is a reminder of the many other opportunities of booty.  TTO3 is an indeterminate response where interest is neither given nor rejected.  Under this third outcome, it's time to decide whether a long-term project is warranted or just time to walk away.  Generally, walking away is the best choice.

A man should choose wisely but never too picky.

Women admire boldness.  A man who attempts to pick up a woman of interest in the street will find more success than commonly expected.  Matching Booty Potential to the WOI is a factor when making bold public moves on strange women, as the unknown men of no interest are rarely sought or needed.  However, there is always opportunity in spontaneous and bold as love moves. Of course, green fields of future tomorrows always await elsewhere, so most times the effort is worth the small time of adventure.  When a real possibility of mutual attraction is found, The ManBible recognizes The Friendly Conversation (TFC) as one good move to talk to an unknown and sometimes unconnected WOI.  The TFC is a basic courting skill where a slow increase is made in attractive intensity of conversation, starting usually from a neutral point, and ending in a flirtative interaction.  The TFC approach affords the time to create interest.   A man must watch for the signs of life during the TFC process.  A classic TFC is asking for directions or something practical, and then finding another issue to discuss to continue the conversation.  Giving a compliment after an answer is always the right touch.  After gaining interest, a man should then feel out the situation to determine if the WOI is interested in continuing the courting ritual.  A number, email, biz card, website, twitter feed, MBEtc. all can solidify progress made and life to fight another day.  A second good approach can make the difference later.  Many women wish more men who check them out on the street would use the opportunity of reciprocation to make a move.

                        "Would you like to go out sometime?"

Dreams of future booty are precious.  They inspire men to learn practical steps and embrace risk in order to transform enlightened ecstasy into tangible bangs.  The ManBible recognizes two important skills necessary to successfully make a move.  The first: A kiss is worth a thousand words, so a man must master decent lip-to-lip contact action.  Not only does it speak for the man better than talking, it stops a man from speaking too much and ruining a good thing.  The second: To make dreams come true, a man must realize the time is now.  There is usually no need to wait for the perfect situation, as a moment lost cannot be reclaimed in exactly the same way.  A cherished moment remembered long after the summer has passed is worth more than most other dreams fulfilled. 

A man should try and fail rather than never try at all. 

Success comes from those that try,

and even more to those who try harder.

MBNote: Sometimes there is an opening on stage and sometimes there is no room.  However, exiting stage left does not preclude getting back on stage later.  A man must quickly size up the situation to find the way in.

          Most moves have been made before.  Men of success usually pre-rehearse a move or two that are ready to be pulled out of their pocket for booty.  The best way to seize opportunities of booty is to quickly take advantage of openings to make a move.  Confidence is the manner of an experienced man, and many use the same few moves over and over again.  Some women will suspect this harmless deception, though most will not as long as no indication of past usage is shown.  The ManBible recognizes there are Common Good Moves (CGM) all men can benefit from for success with women of interest.   Making a move is an easier affair when a man knows his move before having to make it. 

Common Good Moves

        1) Friend of a Friend (FOF) - A man should socialize for friendship to afford opportunities to introduce himself to women of interest.  Even if there is little chance for immediate courting, a good first impression with a friend stamp of approval is always a good first move.  Socially acceptable opportunities of minimum risk with the potential to start something substantial later are favored. 

        2) The Walk Over (TWO) - A man shows much confidence when he is willing to walk over to a woman of interest without an outside or third party introduction.  This move is definitely bold as love and immediately conveys this type of attractive character.  When a man learns the walk over, he is on many roads to success.

        4) Center of Attention (CoA) - In a social situation where there are women of interest, an opportunity to be the center of attention should always be contemplated.  Public announcements, a show of strength, musicianship or even envious experiences are common.

       

5) The Switch Off - (TSO) - When an attempt at conversation is failing, an opportunity to engage another woman of interest should always be contemplated.  There is flattery when a man chooses one woman over anther.  Further, by withholding attention through TSO, a second chance may be found later with greater chances of success.

        6) A Story Line (ASL) - When an attempt at conversation is failing, a pre-determined rant on an interesting subject is a good way to avoid premature disengagement.  Keeping a notepad to refresh subjects of interest before socializing is a great way for a man to seem smarter and more interesting than he actually is.

MBex: A man sees a woman of interest across the room at the bar.  He notices she is just starting to talk to a friend of his who has a serious girlfriend.  In quick response, he forms a POA: he will go over to get a drink, turn to talk to his friend and make first contact with the woman.  He also recalls a good memorized talking point.  After some smooth talking, he will abruptly close the conversation by taking his friend away.  Later, he can make a second pass and hopefully, success in the future.  With the plan of action in hand, the man then makes a move.

MBex: After meeting his cousin's friend, a man finds himself designating her a definite woman of interest.  He likes that she is quiet and shy, but with a very sexy style that reveals cleavage.  The man hasn't been in a relationship in many months and is aware of his boredom at night, even with late-night hang opportunities.  He thinks about her Total Women Profile evaluation as a HSSS (Hot, Smart, Short and Sexy) and how he has been dreaming of this future for some times.  He makes a move and gives a next-day call.

Making a Move (MAM) - Overcoming any psychological or physical barriers to substantial contact with a woman and approaching a WOI to gain favor.

Plan of Action (POA) - When a man plans out a general approach of actions and words before he makes a move on a WOI.

A Situation (Sich) - Any social situation where there is a potential WOI.

Attractive Intensity - The amount of flirtative intent and displays in a conversation.

Hidden Opportunities to Make a Move

        1) Shared awkward moments

        2) Funerals

        3) Third party to a breakup

        4) A side comment to a woman in public

         

MBNote: Contact with women does not always have to be for the purpose of dating for a relationship or marriage.  The ManBible recommends a man continually exercise his skill with women, from flirtations to one-night stands.  Only through experience can a man succeed when it really counts.  When confronted with a woman of interest, and the desire arises to have that woman become a girlfriend or more, achieving these goals takes experience and skill.  When engaging women for the purpose of non-dating, a man is freer to utilize many different approaches and methods to reach this temporary goal.  Knowing that your bullshit will probably not come back to harm you is a factor for consideration.  Further, a man can practice a trait he wants to become, such as acting tougher or smarter.  Remember, it's not a lie if you believe it. (“GC,” Seinfeld 1990s). 

MBNote: The approach to a group of girls is one of the most difficult and challenging actions a man can ever take in the pursuit of women.  A man must achieve a high Booty Potential in order to accomplish this task successfully.  The ManBible recognizes the merit of a man willing to approach a group of girls and start a conversation.  When a man's purpose is for himself and his comrades, it's even more coveted.  Step up to the plate and swing for a home run.

Section IV - Variation of Method

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        Every woman is a different experience.  With these differences comes variety of form that make every woman special and worth banging.  Variation requires a method of approaching tailored to these variations of consequence.  To maximize success, The ManBible recognizes Variation of Method (VOM) for each woman of interest.  What works on a mean girl will not necessarily work on a good girl.  Ever vigilant, a man must attempt variations on approach to gain favor.  VOM is often mistaken as a devious nature, so keeping separation of WOI is essential to decrease the risk.  However, getting a WOI to go to bed can be a challenging affair, no matter what type of a woman is of interest.  The level of success in the courting ritual is based in large part on the ability to customize the affair.  Although tailor-made hit-ons are sometimes imperfect, and rejection may be a moment away, a man who can vary his method will find the right method in many situations.  A man serious about success must attempt variations in approach to gain the favor.

Section V – Come-On Devices

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Honesty is a part of valor.  Intentional displays of affection and desire are usually necessary before sexual relations and eventual sex.  Although the first kiss might come after a silent moment, the intent to bang is expected revealed.  Further, when engaged in courting a woman of interest, being upfront with attraction sends a message in the form of an offer.  This message needs to come out of the bottle.  The ManBible recognizes Come-On Devices (COD) as specific moves designed to disclose the intent to bang.  CODs should also give advantage in the courting ritual, as many women prefer direct affection and attention.  The CODs are a group of methods of gaining favor with women. When a man enters a room, especially when he is a single man, the room may contain dreams of future tomorrows, where women who will interest him may be waiting.  For this man, many adventures and pleasures may be right around the corner.  A man versed with many CODs will be prepared to meet the immediate challenge he might face when confronted with a women he would like receive SRES.  When a man makes a move, the right moves are handy.

When a man decides to make a move, commonly known come-on devices (CODs) are essential for a smooth transition into the sexual phase of the courting ritual.  Having a method to approach is a good way to start an even greater thing.

Common Come-On Devices

1) The Forward Approach (TFA) - Direct engagement of physical presence with a woman of interest is always a good move.  This includes beginning a spontaneous conversation, asking her to the dance floor, buying a drink, MBetc.  There is higher risk of embarrassment and failure with TFA, but the reward is a key move to future success.  Women like the attention of bold men.

2) Group Hang Approach (GHA) - When a man uses a group social situation to create the opportunity to gain favor with a woman of interest.  GHA is one of the safer approaches, as group hangs affords a man the chance to show his qualities around other friends and acquaintances with an easy exit to blend back into the group.  Being socially fun and literate are impressive traits of style and charm, and well worth improvement.  The ManBible recommends the GHA for macking on friends of friends, coworkers of friends, friends of siblings or cousins, MBetc.

3) Internet Email Message (IEM) - A modern method of using electronic messages to gain favor outside a woman's physical presence.  This method is an internal dialogue of personality and intelligence.  IEMs are of historical importance as they have created an important new avenue to Cultivate The Booty.  Along with asking to meet or connecting through friends, email correspondence of flirtations, sweet nothings and affection have greatly impacted the modern courting ritual.

4) The Phone Call - (TPC) - An old method of using electronic messages to gain favor outside a woman's physical presence.  This method is an internal dialogue of personality and intelligence, with vocalization necessary to deliver the message of sexual relations and sex interest.  TPCs are of historical importance as they created the first real time, long-distance avenue to Cultivate The Booty. 

5) Send Out The Vibe (SOV) - The presence of a man displayed for a woman of interest in its most favorable light.  When a man is sending out the vibe, considered by many a "roll the dice" action, with varying amounts of success depending on time, place and Booty Potential.  The SOV is low-risk for rejection, embarrassment and frustration, but along with that comes a low chance of success.  Many factors must meet to create a Girl Move On Guy (GMOG) —signs of life, direct invitation, or other suggestive reaction to allow approach.  

6) Message Through a Friend (MTF) - Generally an effective approach, a man can plant the seed of interest through a mutual acquaintance.  Because of the connection between parties, there should be agreement the idea has some merit.  Although the MTF lacks boldness, it can work to push the issue for resolution.  The ManBible recommends use of the MTF only when necessary.

7) Message In a Bottle (MIB) - Generally an effective approach after making a move in a woman's presence, and sometimes as a first move with shy girls or special circumstances.  A MIB is perpetrated by leaving a message with a woman in order to gain favor and get permission to make further contact.  The MIB should only be used in the middle of bold and passionate moves, as there are better methods to spur sexual tension and excitement.  The ManBible recommends use of the MIB only when the Booty Potential is fairly matched to the woman of interest.  Commonly done by voice mail or email mail.

8) High Engagement of the Communication Zone (HECZ) - When a man can focus a room's energy on his own public performance, he can communicate his worth directly to a woman of interest in the crowd.  Further, the HECZ affords a statement with heighten worth.  A man shows purpose when he performs for others, increasing Current Booty Potential.  This method uses bold moves to gain the attention and admiration of WOIs.  These include all types of social performances: speeches, music performances, literature and poetry readings, comedy acts, being the life of the party, MBetc.

               

9) Men Acting Out (MAO) - Acting out in public is a primitive yet sometimes very effective physical maneuver to gain attention and favor.  Through bravado and performance, a man attempts to make a spectacle of himself for the humor, entertainment value and general awe of a woman of interest.  As an old method in the modern world, it has changed somewhat to include less feats of strength.  Climbing an iconic bridge or jet-skiing behind a ferry, then bragging about it later for favor in the courting ritual, is the modern day version of battles won for love and glory.

10) Asking the Parents’ Permission (APP) - An old tradition rarely used in the modern world, though parental acceptance is a real outside pressure on the courting ritual.  Although it's now understood parental involvement does not include the gate-keeping function, being in the parental favor is a good thing generally, unless the woman of interest is rebelling.

11) Casual Conversation (CC) - A more low-key and comfortable approach to feel a situation out with minimal risk of embarrassment and rejection.  Usually this approach is used as an initial icebreaker to find real opportunities to make a move.  Hinting to a woman that a man can go either way (pursue her or not) is the attitude to success.

Come-On Devices (COD) - Actions taken to engage a woman of interest designed to disclose the intent to bang.

Section VI - Keeping Your Cards Close

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          Disclosure of information is disfavored.  One of the most important rules when courting a woman of interest is to refrain from displays of interest above that which makes interest certain.  When a man displays too much interest, the challenge and excitement of the chase is removed, thus lowering the available interest a WOI could hold.  Not knowing the precise attraction a man holds leads to more interest to find that attraction.  The ManBible recommends a man Keep his Cards Close (KCC) and reveal interest in a slow and methodical fashion equal to the phase of the relationship.  Once a couple engages in sexual relations and sex, the KCC becomes less a factor.  However, when the decision time for sex is upon a couple and sealing the deal requires an outward confirmation of deep affection, the FCC is likely to fold. 

Premature Relationship Pullout (PRP) - When one party pulls out of a developing relationship, usually within the first two weeks, due to a turn-off or change in events.

Verse VII

Tools of the Trade

"Sometimes things work and sometimes they don't.  When failure befalls a man, a teachable moment occurs where good habits and understanding may lay foundations for future success."

                                     

                                                MBC4V6S1L30

          MBC4V6S0

Section I - The Basic Tools

Section II - The Art of Kissing

Section III - The Fondle

Section IV - Positioning

Section V - Flirtative Skill

Section VI - Smooth Talker

Sacred Illuminated Thought: Even when a man is trying new moves, it's helpful to have old moves to fall back on.  The more a man knows the tools of the trade, the better he will do and the more he will get laid.

Section I - The Basic Tools

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        Before a man can run, he must learn to walk.  The courting ritual requires basic skills for success.  Men who know these skills reap the reward of intimacy with women of interest, men who don't generally fail.  The ManBible recognizes the six Tools of the Trade (TT).  The TTs are i) Flirtation, ii) Persuasion, iii) Kissing, iv) Fondling, v) Fucking, and vi) General relations.  Knowing how to touch, talk and persuade women is essential in gaining favor and the grant of sexual relations and eventual sex. 

The Tools of the Trade

1) Kissing

2) Fondling

3) Positioning

4) Flirtation

5) Persuasion 

6) Relation

MB Note: Every experience a man undertakes is an experiment in good living.  Sometimes things work, and sometimes they do not.  When failure befalls a man, a teachable moment occurs where good habits and understanding may lay foundations for future successes.  As with every challenging affair, it starts with the basics. 

Section II - The Art of Kissing

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A kiss is but a kiss.  Too many men have fallen from grace of a woman of interest by faulty, displeasing and ineffective technique.  Although tolerance is generally high, no points are given to a bad kisser.  More severely, many women dismiss those after a lousy makeout session.  Therefore, learning the basics of kissing is important for success.  The good kisser is usually the man asked back for more.  The ManBible recognizes the Art of Kissing (AOK) as the techniques necessary to kiss women well.  As the first kiss is usually an opportunity to sway favor for more relations, learning AOK is a smart move. 

 Good technique leads to better results.  The Art of Kissing begins with a few basic rules and methods.  Even when making the first move for lip-to-lip contact, allow the woman to return the kiss and set the tone.  What works for a particular WOI is unknown until first contact, so concentrating on the moment affords some time to properly gauge the type of kissing necessary for the greatest impact.  Generally a soft kisser should be treated softly as hard must be met at least on the same level of intensity.  Through the use of dynamics, there should be moments where intensity changes.  Eye contact, caring kisses and kiss ends should also be employed to value add the experience.  A reputation as a good kisser is worth its weight in Booty Potential.

Art of Kissing Rules

1) Don't be a fish or start licking from the start.

2) Do not envelop the woman's mouth 

3) Default more firm than soft.

4) Listen, feel, and remember what works. Repeat.

5) Get it right within 5-10 seconds (Change approach if necessary).

6) Use hands to enhance.

7) First full kiss time: 15-30 seconds. Don't short change.

8) Come up for breath and take some pauses.

9) Eye contact. (Open eyes to see what you are doing)..

10) Don't say anything stupid, and don't say much of anything at all. 

11) Let her do the talking and agree.

A bad kiss can ruin the chances of even a perfect guy.

Types of Kissing Approaches

        The ManBible recommends a combination:

        1) American

        2) French

        3) Tongue Twister

        4) Sucking Face

        5) Closed Mouth

MB Warning: Always try to shave unless your beard is soft.  Women are appreciative of a kissing session without the infliction of marks or scratches on their faces.

Section III - The Fondle

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A man must know how to touch well.  The common move of prematurely reaching out and grabbing boob is generally ineffective in affording future courting opportunities.  When to make a move is sometimes as important as how to make it.  Proper fondling can express an appreciation and affection beyond sexual desire, which specifically satisfies an important interest for women.  The ManBible recognizes good fondling technique creates good will and feelings for future success.  Fondling is usually done in combination with other actions, such as kissing or banging.   Knowing how to touch a woman in a way to maximize her pleasure is essential to gaining favor and continued sexual relations and eventual sex.  Many times, a man will learn the right level of fondling from a woman's response.  A buildup of intensity is usually recommended, where a man eventually finds a sweet spot where the fondling effect is in full force.  Some women like a soft and sensual touch, while others more aggressive and pulling.  Either way a man needs to figure out the situation in order to keep the game in play.      

MBNote: Hands are a man's best friend.  The ManBible teaches the use of hands during a sexual encounter can enhance the experience for the woman and make her believe the moment is special.  One great move while kissing or banging is placing one hand near the woman's side and the other at the neck and reaching gently down and up though 1/3 increments of the hairline (wait a few seconds, 1/5 minute, and then repeat, with 2/3 increment through the hairline, and then back again).

MB Warning: A man should not go right for the boobs unless there is a good reason to do so. 

Section IV - Positioning

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The right place at the right time.  Where a man finds himself will generally affect the optimization of his courting performance.  Ultimately there is a performance review with every sexual encounter, and getting a woman in a good position is important for mood and positive sexual effect.  Being in the wrong position to attempt complex maneuvers can diminish success.  The ManBible recognizes a man must be able to position and reposition with a woman to satisfy performance expectations and maximize the sexual relations.  Positioning is effectively done by finding a position that i) allows for sufficient room to move, ii) keeps a woman slightly off balance, iii) allows the man moments of being above the woman, and iv) allows for the man or women to change position quickly as the situation develops.  When a woman is relaxed but able to be repositioned, the right position is found.   

Good Positioning

Woman is leaning on a railing with a scenic view facing man.

Woman is on a bed and sex starts at the center top. 

Stand-up makeout position in an enclosed space of the street.

Woman on a blanket in the evening at the beach.

On a chair.

Bad Positioning

Sexual relations in the back seat of a compact vehicle.

In the dark without ability to see even partial images.

On a table.

Section V - The Flirtative Skill

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        The way to a woman's heart is through her lips.  The ManBible recognizes one of the most important skills is the Art of Flirtation (AOF).  Flirtation is the act of conversing with a woman while attempting to elicit favorable reactions to gain favor.  The AOF is the constant work toward better flirtative skills.    A man who can flirt well maintains a valuable skill in life.  Flirting skills come from experience, observing the masters, and a lot of practice.  The more a man engages woman of interest, the better the ability to guage what women want to see and hear. Getting on a WOI's good side and staying on that side is a sign of good flirtative skills.  The AOF is a combination of words and actions, such as attractive and appropriate behavior, impressive conversation, admired qualities and even perceived intelligence.  When the combination is right, a woman will react to a man's flirtations in a positive light.  The AOF opens many doors of booty.

Lead-off Flirting (LOFF) - When a man flirts with a woman without the intent of making the flirtation exclusive, and therefore displaying the attitude.

Lead-on Flirting (LOF) - When a man flirts with a woman of interest with an intensity that shows the man is definitely focused on the woman and extremely interested in getting some SFL.

Doors of Booty (DOB) - Places of opportunity in life for men to meet women of interest.

Flirtation - Flirting is an expression of attraction, both verbal and physical, used to produce a favorable response.

MBNote: There are some men who master the flirtative skill in a profound enough way to be positively characterized as master flirts.  The master flirt is the best of the best…of the best.  He can sweep into any situation, awkward moment, or unlikely encounter and gain favor through verbal skill and physical presence. 

Section VI - Smooth Talker

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Smooth operators win the courting prize.  When a man is given the opportunity to converse, the stage is set for displays of attractive verbosity.  Because most women listen to what is said, care should be given to tone and disclosure.  A man must be prepared to talk about something at any given moment, but not something of a turnoff.  Many men have run afoul from stupid comments, suggestions and ideas.  The ManBible recognizes the Rules of Talking (ROT) as the basic guidelines for verbal success and reduction of risk.  The ROTs are i) Talk Less, Sex More (TLSM), ii) The Memorized Talking Points Rule, and iii) The Four Essential Parts (FEP).  The best method is usually to talk about positive subjects, make no mistakes regarding disclosure of information, and whenever possible, make them laugh.

The ManBible Rules of Talking

        Rule I - Talk Less, Sex More

        Mastering the art of talking to women of interest is a lifelong project that will forever be imperfect.  Any man should first realize that success is not measured in the quality or quantity of conversation, but in the quality and quantity of sexual relations and eventual sex.  The first rule is a man should never talk more than he has to talk.  Not only is there the risk of saying something to turnoff the WOI, verbal refrain inspires the belief of depth of character and maturity.  Although a good rant can be an important asset, brevity should be the presumption.  When you don't have something interesting to say, most times it's better not to say anything. 

        Rule II - Memorized Talking Points

        Preparation is part of success.  When a man has something interesting to say, sometimes it's better to save it until nothing interesting comes to mind.  The ManBible recommends a man commit to memory several Memorized Talking Points (MTP) or conversation subjects for future use with women of interest.  When the moment of silence arrives, which it always does, a MTP makes the awkward moment a chance for greater success. First think about what you want to ultimately say and then start talking to that point.  Never wander a thought.

        Rule III - The Four Essential Parts

        There are four things a woman wants to hear.   A smooth talker must touch upon at least one or more of these four essential moments to take advantage of the conversation.  These Four Essential Parts (FEP) are: i) compliments for the woman, ii) an achievement of the man, iii) a universal observation or poetic statement, or iv) statement of uniqueness of the situation.  When a man covers at least one or more FEP, he is probably smooth talking, even if he does not know or care. 

The Four Essential Parts

Compliments for the woman.

An achievement or purpose of the man.

A universal observation or poetic statement.

Stated uniqueness of situation.

Complements for the woman

        A woman is a creature of insecurity when it relates to men and sex.  Boosting a woman's confidence and self-esteem engenders a man into the confidence of sexual relations and eventual sex.  The ManBible recognizes the use of compliments as essential to successful courting and banging of a woman of interest.  Although there are a few confused women who find attraction in the putdown, most women find compliments highly valued and appreciated.  When a woman looks good, a man should say so.   

An achievement or purpose of the man

        Women are attracted to men with purpose.  (See The Man Purpose Doctrine MBC1V2S4).  When a man shows a mission in life, he is a man in motion.  Motion shows energy to succeed and to believe in something greater than one's own life.  This brings forth the connotation of making babies.  The ManBible recognizes under the Man Purpose Doctrine (MPD), a man with a purpose is more attractive to women than a man without a purpose.  Understanding the MPD means understanding where the battle for booty lays.

A universal observation or poetic statement

Women are equally attracted to the personality of a man as the body electric.  Unlike men, who usually can initially ignore personality for booty, women are impressed with the mind.  The ManBible recognizes a universal observation or poetic statement as The Deep Thought (TDT).   The TDT is a means to plant the seed of attraction in a woman.  Many times, the TDT is sufficient to make a woman of interest interested in the man, too.

Stated uniqueness of situation

        Any woman on a date wants to feel that it’s the first date of importance for the man.  While this is generally not the case, a man should always remark on the uniqueness of the place or situation he finds himself with a woman of interest.  The ManBible recognizes this stated uniqueness of the situation as part of the Three Damone Rules (TDR).  (See Fast Times at Richmond High, 1982).   "Hey, isn't this great?" is all that is needed to put a woman in the booty seat.  

Opening Line Ideas

          1) Common courtesy

        2) Introduction

        3) Go for broke

        4) Almost go for broke

        5) A flattering question

        6) A keen observation

        7) Confusion maker

        8) Funny man

        9) Strange ways

        10) Give an option

Initial MB Opening Lines

        1) How are you doing?

        2) Hi, I am _________.

3) You’re very pretty.

4) Hey.

        5) So, (question).

        6) Nice weather

        7) Have we met?

8) Isn't this great?

9) What did you say?

10) Buy you a drink?

MBNote: The ManBible recognizes that women are independent individuals, requiring a certain amount of respect and courtesy.  This doesn't mean doing “dude” things with them to make things even, it means you have to be able to talk to your woman the way you would talk to your best friend.  Talk to them straight, and allow them their own world-view.  Let them do their own things.  In the end, it is much better to provide support for their sometimes—and many times—crazy ways, than to get in the way.  When a man gets in the way of a woman's world-view, he usually gets crushed.

MB Note: A man must be prepared with several different subject matters to engage, flirt and communicate with woman.  This can be easily accomplished by spending about fifteen minutes thinking about interesting subject matter that a woman would likely want to talk about, and then submitting it to memory or writing it down on a ManBible Cheat Sheet (MCS).

MBWarning: Being yourself is commonly touted as the right and smart thing to do.  The idea is that women will appreciate the honesty.  This is a false assumption.

First Reaction (FR) - An instinctual and an involuntary first reaction to an emerging situation with a woman.  The perception of this reaction can be withheld.

The Deep Thought (TDT) - Conversing with a woman of interest using more serious and in-depth subject matters.  TDTs include politics, science and scatology, MBetc.  TDTs are potentially ineffective in many situations.

MB Warning: Some topics should not be used when attempting to court a woman of interest, unless brought up first by the woman, and then, always within reason.  These are politics, sports, religion, hunting, science, former girlfriends and relationships.

Verse VIII

The Dream of Love

"Lust and love are not the same, although they share several common traits."

                                                                -MBC4V7S1L20

          Section I - Must Be Magic

Section II - Real Love

Section III- The Power of Love

Section IV - Love At First Site

Sacred Illuminated Thought - Lust and love are not the

same.  Lust is a state of heightened interest where wanting to bang is the most important affair.  Love is commitment and a feeling that doesn’t go away, and in combination with sex a very pleasant affair.

Section I - Must Be Magic

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          Beauty enchants men.   Even the strongest among men who seek women are susceptible to the power of a woman's beauty, and many men have thrown caution, reason and wisdom to the wind for this booty.  Sometimes a man cannot help but fall head-over-heels for a woman of interest, even though he knows a relationship will ultimately lead to failure or pain.  Women possess the ability to bend a man's better judgment.   As a superceding force to all known rational methods of living, The ManBible recognizes a woman's beauty is a magical phenomenon.  Recognizing the magical quality of a woman's being reminds all men of the joy and delight that waits, as well as the manipulation of a man's fate.  Respect the power of female attraction and the compelling nature of a woman's beauty.     

This intangible and magical phenomenon of women draws the complete attention of men in a way few things do in life: the potential to bring out the best and most passionate responses to the extreme.  This magic can both drive men to success and drive men to madness.  The ManBible recognizes the magical quality of women as an essential part of the world of women.  For the many men who have conceived thoughts and dreams of women, naked and willing, every minute of every day, for decades on end—it must be magic.  Anything else would make it a very long waste of time.  Of course, being under a magic spell is not always the best place to find oneself.

       

          MBNote: Women have broken many a man.  The ManBible recognizes a man must constantly be aware of the things he does for a woman, which sometimes make him seem out-of-character.  A man must always take a reality check from time to time and remember he was once an individual person.  Losing a grip on reality is usually a bad move, and losing oneself in a woman's magical swirl will eventually lead to either full capitulation or war.  Keeping your wits about you as a man means not standing up for things you cannot tolerate as well as those you do not wish to include in a relationship.  A man must draw the line somewhere—and keep back from that line.  Not only will this make him a stronger man in the eyes of a woman of interest, but it will give a man understanding in times of argument and dissent.  Remember, most relationships eventually turn from a high of first encounters to a low of dump time.  What starts out as a reasonable approach and reaction can turn into illogical assumptions, unreasonable reactions and badly made choices.  Enjoy the magic without coming under its spell.

Section II - Real Love

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        There is love, and then there is love.  Love, or real love, is commonly referred to as feelings of caring, also known as Romeo Love.  It is the mystery that bends the general laws of courting and dating, and the love that drives men to despair and utter madness.  Not all love is love in the Romeo sense, however.  Love, as defined in The ManBible, is the courting process, where the game of desire for sexual relations and eventual sex is played.  This is known as The Game of Love (GOL).  Love and love are not the same, although they share several common traits.  The ManBible offers some wisdom concerning both types of love, including the mechanics of physical love, but it does not pretend to understand what real love is, especially as women see it.  No matter how defined, however, a man must play the game of love well, even when it is real love.

Women give it up for the price of real love.

Even in the best of times, real love is always a battlefield.  The ManBible warns of three known issues with real love.  First, love is a battlefield.  There is no known relationship involving love that does not bring forth the opposite feeling of hate.  In order to experience and recognize love, a man will be given the privilege of recognizing despise for the women you love.  Second, many men confuse lust with love, thinking love as a type of commonly sanctioned come-on device, and that it will somehow increase success with a woman of interest.  Do not play the love card lightly, as once it is used, it can never be taken back.  And third, real love has the potential to make sexual encounters better.  Also known as the missing Eleventh ManBible Truth (MBMT11): When love and sex intertwine, good things always happen.  (See MBC10V1S7).

MBWarning: "Love is a mother-fucker." (Old School, 2003). 

        True love is when you love someone else, regardless of how the relationship turns. This is the selfless act of being concerned about another person because of who that person is.  Reciprocation is still necessary, however.  True love is not covered extensively in the ManBible, but it will make a man do extraordinary things.  Sometimes, other men must file a MB COA and get the man out of there! (See MB Court Rules)

Lust and real love are two very different things.  Misinterpreting lust for real love is a common problem in the courting ritual.  A new woman will always have qualities similar to those felt with the woman of interest.  Being able to tell the difference will save much time and energy. 

LUST                             LOVE

High Physical Attraction                  Y                                Y

Caring                                          Y                              Y

Willing to forgo sex for a while          Y                                 Y

Great sex                                      Y                                 Y

Family Feelings                                N                            Y

Dreams of Romance                         N                                 Y

Real Love is a two-way street.  Many men have loved into an empty room or vacant bed.  The ManBible recognizes the woman of interest must reciprocate in kind for love at first site to be meaningful.  This is called the Love Reciprocation Doctrine (LRD).  There is no point to falling in real love with a woman who will not fall in love with you.  A man risks losing precious time in new pursuits when less than total reciprocation is given, as there are many other women in the world.  There are endless love stories.  If one is not written, another one waits to be told. 

The Lie of Love (LOL) - i) When a man lies to a woman, telling her "he loves her," in order to gain success. ii) The promises of love that are not kept. 

Spark of Love (SoL) - The instantaneous feeling of desire between a man and a woman unrelated to real love.

Section III - The Power of Love

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There is love and there is love of making love.  Real love, which is the divine feeling of ultimate caring, is documented and well known in literature and media.  Below real love is everything else between women and men.  This duality is reflected in The ManBible Ninth Truth: There are two types of love. (MBT9).  Although real love is important in certain circumstances, The ManBible is primarily focused on the latter type of love, whose source of power is derived from the intimate connection with sexual relations and sex.  This love can include real love, but it is not a critical factor in making love where the love of physical attraction, passion and lust is the main point.  In the realm of men, there is a great appreciation and respect for this type of love.   Unlike real love, which is hard to find, love of making love is generally plentiful.  From a long bang session, to a make-out session with an ex-girlfriend, to a kiss goodbye after a night of talking, to a flirtation and exchange of numbers, love is a curious and exciting thing.  Further, orgies, threesomes and passionate affairs are a reflection of this type of love. Love is the pleasure and sensation of being with women, and increases with the joy and thrill of success. 

        Common Reactions to Love

        1) Unable to think of anything else but women

        2) Future thoughts of a lifetime of sex and pleasure

        3) A man stops listening to friend's advice

        4) Dropping other responsibilities

        5) Dropping friends and family

MB Note: The power of love is very strong.  The goal of sex can make men do almost anything for the ecstasy and future delights.  The ManBible recognizes the Power of Love (POL).  The POL motivates a man to make a move.

        Section IV - Love At First Site

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        A man will know when the feeling is right.  Whether the feeling is something special or just sexual attraction is the question. The intensity of a first contact is usually strong, and many feelings are unleashed, including extreme interest is sexual relations and eventual sex.  Sometimes a man will fall in real love with a WOI the first time in her presence.  However, most times the feeling is primarily for SRES.  The ManBible recognizes Love At First Site (LFS) most often a confused state of heightened sexual tension mixing thoughts of real love with general interest in banging.  Most times, a man's interest in SRES is enough to court most WOIs.  The psychological and physiological reaction to viewing a woman for the first time is fairly uncertain to determine of future relations..  The effect of LFS is an absolute focus and energy.  Real love is great, if you can find it. The other Love is also great, and more easily found.